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Outcome isn't the only thing that makes you a WINNER. So does participation. The journey is what matters most. Not the destination Right?

Posted - January 29, 2017

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  • 170
    "For when the One Great Scorer comes
    To mark against your name,
    He writes – not that you won or lost –
    But how you played the Game."

    Grantland Rice
      January 29, 2017 6:16 AM MST
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  • 113301
    Nice. I have heard of Grantland Rice but honestly I don't have a clue who he is so I shall Google him. I assume he was sports person. Thank you for your reply Plingsby and Happy Monday to thee! :)
      January 30, 2017 5:24 AM MST
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  • 170
    And to you too :)
    The quotation is much used in the British (and old British Empire) game of cricket where for many years "How you played the game" was genuinely considered to be as important as winning.

    There is even an expression "That's not cricket!" which means not fair, or cheating or not in the correct spirit.

    Oddly Grantland Rice had probably never heard of cricket. This post was edited by Plingsby at January 30, 2017 6:15 AM MST
      January 30, 2017 6:10 AM MST
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  • 6988
    In the world of sports, a 'participation trophy' is considered crap because a true athlete must work his skills for years to accomplish the results of a champion.
      January 29, 2017 6:20 AM MST
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  • 3934
    Or, they can just be genetic freaks like Joel Embiid...;-D...

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joel_Embiid
      January 29, 2017 10:44 AM MST
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  • 113301
    I didn't say a word about "participation" trophies bh. That isn't the point of the question. Which do YOU get the most out of ...getting there or being there? Isn't the journey just as important as reaching the destination? You don't need trophies to make it worthwhile. Thank you for your reply! :)
      January 30, 2017 5:26 AM MST
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  • 46117
    Yes.  If you focus on the journey with the end as a goal, you will realize that the goal is not the prize, but rather the quality of time you spent getting there.

    Did you waste it?  Did you think only of someday?  Like you cannot be happy, content unless that goal is reached?  Then what?  The gift is to try and enjoy or at least learn every moment we are alive.  Then every moment is a personal goal. 

      January 29, 2017 6:23 AM MST
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  • 113301
    Precisely. Thank you for your thoughtful reply Sharonna! :)
      January 30, 2017 5:27 AM MST
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    8015
    Eternal life is a log time.  I look forward to my final destination and am oh so ready.  

      January 29, 2017 6:26 AM MST
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  • :(
      January 29, 2017 7:35 AM MST
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  • 113301
    I prefer to live in the moment Star. If I look ahead then I am missing the now and that may be all I have. Thank you for your reply! :)
      January 30, 2017 5:28 AM MST
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  • Agreed.. there can only be one winner abs that's ok... it's trying that's important...
      January 29, 2017 7:38 AM MST
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  • 113301
    Yep. Being part of something. Taking a chance. Doing your best. Getting out there yourself instead of sitting on the sidelines taking potshots at other people! Thank you for your reply Ozgirl and Happy Monday! :)
      January 30, 2017 5:30 AM MST
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  • 10052
    Absolutely right!

    Setting and achieving goals is part of the journey, but often times a "failure" leads you to a better path and destination.
      January 29, 2017 10:25 AM MST
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  • 113301
    That my friend has happened to me more than once! The "failure" worked out to my benefit! Who knew? Thank you for your reply SA and Happy Monday! :)
      January 30, 2017 5:31 AM MST
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  • 10052
    You're welcome, and hope your Monday is fantastic!
      January 30, 2017 7:38 AM MST
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  • 22891
    thats true
      January 29, 2017 2:43 PM MST
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