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Guys, what is the number one thing you want or seek in a romantic/love relationship?

Posted - February 4, 2017

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  • 1138
    What is a 'big' woman to you? I'm not obese, but am a little overweight I'd say... is anything over like 140 lbs. a big woman , or do you mean very large?
      February 4, 2017 10:01 AM MST
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  • 5835
    I mean any woman who reminds me of one of my grade school teachers.
      February 4, 2017 11:49 AM MST
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  • Now, THAT is something I can understand. Mind you, I think I had my first love affair with my school teacher when I was 7 years old. Her name was Miss Lawson but she was really Miss Pretty. I used to be naughty in class so that she would smack me. God, what a twisted kid. Glad I grew out of it. 

      February 4, 2017 1:17 PM MST
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  • 1138
    Awwww :)
      February 4, 2017 1:52 PM MST
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  • 1138
    Oh hehe, got it :)
      February 4, 2017 1:52 PM MST
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  • 53509
    Weighing 140 isn't an automatic indicator of anything without taking into account a person's height. A woman who is 6'4" tall and weighs 140 pounds differs vastly from a woman who is 4'6" tall and weighs 140 pounds. 

    ~
      February 4, 2017 2:23 PM MST
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  • I'm looking for an honest, considerate person that is comfortable with herself.
    She doesn't have to be perfect, I'm not.
    I'd hope that she'd believe in love and being with one person at a time.
    If she shared a similar sense of humor would be good and if she liked sleeping naked would be a plus also.
    Thanks.
      February 4, 2017 1:36 PM MST
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  • 1138
    I really like that description :) Honest and considerate, too good ones!! I love a sense of humor, and as for sleeping nude, never done it, but it sounds frisky :P
      February 4, 2017 1:55 PM MST
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  • Thanks, it's pretty much everything me and my ex didn't have.
    So at least I kinda know what I want this time I'm just too scared to go outside and get it.
    Someday I'll try to love again (Just like Sheryl Crow says, LoL.)
      February 4, 2017 2:01 PM MST
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  • 53509
    (my ex and I)
      February 4, 2017 3:18 PM MST
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  • I know that's the proper way Randy, but it just doesn't sound cool to me.
    My ex and I, my cat and I, my friend and I.
    I just don't like it sorry.
      February 4, 2017 3:42 PM MST
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  • 1138
    Aww, same here Work... I feel so nervous/scared to attain love, or to truly try to find it... it seems all men or most anyway, want intimacy and physical aspects right off the bat instead of connection/friendship or love :/ So it scares me, and I also feel like any other woman is more confident than me, so I just decline, when I really don't want to decline guys .... here is to us finding joy :)
      February 4, 2017 8:36 PM MST
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  • Yeah cheers Baybreeze!
    I hope we do find love.
    I kinda had it with my ex, but I think I loved her more, but I still got to be married for a long time even if she did turn out to be a cheater.
    I hate her a lot of the time, but I was just washing my hair and I grabbed a random bottle of shampoo and it smelled just like her hair and for a second I remembered having a bath with her and holding each other and smelling that shampoo so anyway I did enjoy her while she was mine.
    Life goes on.
    Good luck to you Baybreeze. : )
      February 4, 2017 9:40 PM MST
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  • 1138
    Wow that sounds so relaxing and romantic to be able to take a bath together just in bliss... *sigh.. Thanks for your replies friend (I'm so sorry she cheated *huggg)
      February 5, 2017 8:43 AM MST
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  • 7683
    I've everything I want touchwood!))
    any misunderstanding should be solved immediately,faithfulness and trustworthiness are two cornerstones for a steady relationship.
      February 4, 2017 1:56 PM MST
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  • 53509
    (Verna K is looking for a woman?  There's something she's not telling us . . .)

    :|
      February 4, 2017 3:19 PM MST
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  • 7683
    OMG what!eww,....I can't even imagine that.......im contended with my hubby;))
    Did I misunderstand the question Randy...hmmm? 
      February 4, 2017 11:10 PM MST
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  • 7792
    I don't even know what love means anymore. Can someone tell me?
      February 4, 2017 8:37 PM MST
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  • When the needs of the other mean more to you than your own. I always liked that one.
      February 4, 2017 9:20 PM MST
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  • Love is the feeling you feel
    When you're about to feel
    A feeling you've never felt before! ... Flip Wilson This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at February 4, 2017 10:35 PM MST
      February 4, 2017 10:29 PM MST
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  • 7683
    Hi Zack,I hope you will find love soon,it will come unexpectedly, all the very best to you,my dear friend!
      February 4, 2017 11:12 PM MST
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  • 46117
    Why would anyone ask a guy what he wants?  It's the woman who decides what he wants. Everyone knows that.
      February 4, 2017 9:27 PM MST
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  • That's right, )
      February 4, 2017 10:04 PM MST
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  • 46117
    Lago, LOL
      February 4, 2017 10:15 PM MST
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  • "A woman with a pulse."  (pulse optional)  :)
      February 4, 2017 10:36 PM MST
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