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Why ask, right? Who let the creeps in?

Do you, as the most natural thing send naked pictures of yourself masturbating to other members that you had no prior interaction with?

What harm, right? Why ask, or respect if they are consenting adults? Why respect their wishes for staying a part of this community, without blocking their private chat feature? It's only online, right? All that maters is their pleasure, and not if it's disturbing for that someone who happened to be online as the urge raised (no pun intended)? Why even consider if a lesbian is interested in seeing a d*ck? It's just another chick, right?

This was a first. I had almost forgotten all about that species, the Neanderthal man existed. I met plenty of them at EP, and ended up blocking all strangers any access in communication with my profile. I truly hope this is just this one, and not a wave of creeps coming our way. Such a disgusting message. Sorry. Rant is over.

Posted - February 28, 2017
Tags : Creepy Explicit

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  • 3463
    Welcome WW.
      February 28, 2017 4:41 PM MST
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  • 3375
    SaphhicHeart, I am just catching up to this and I am appalled to say the least.  I don't ever have my chat line open, so I was spared what happened to you.  I am so sorry.  You are a wonderful soul that didn't deserve that at all.

    In reading what happened here, I am shocked to say the least!  There is joking around in the middle of an adult conversation, but it sounds like you were completely broad sided by someone that gets their jollies off on shocking people.  I would say he is no different than the creep that will openly masturbate in public in front of little grils.  I do believe that is a crime.

    I hope this individual will not get away with doing this again.  Period.  


     


    This post was edited by PeaPod is just popping by at March 1, 2017 7:33 PM MST
      February 28, 2017 12:25 PM MST
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  • 1128
    Agreed on all points! 
      February 28, 2017 12:37 PM MST
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  • 17261
    Sweet Pea, I was used to such violations at EP. We had several during a week. However, I wasn't prepared today as I've always felt safe here, and never had to receive such unwanted material here before today. I had one telling me to get outside and have myself raped, but he's no longer here. I had another come telling me I'm a b*tch, but he's also no longer here. I had maybe two or three who tried to see if they could make me take part in sexual chat and getting angry with me, telling me I'm mean because I told them I'd not chat with them. But that will be about it. No sexual explicit pics. 

    I agree with your comparison to the creep masturbaing in public in front of those who doesn't want to look at him. I am now aware, by members telling here or in PM that I'm not the only. At least three others have received similar from him. Makes me wonder for how long he's been doing it, if underage members have been assaulted in similar ways. This is to me way more serious than if a photo of two women straddling dressed in the backseat of a car is suitable or not, if b*tch, f*ck and the more can be written or not, if shitz is too close to sh*t and should be censored or not. Ugh.
      February 28, 2017 2:12 PM MST
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  • 3375
    You hit on a point that cannot be understated...who else has he done this to and are they under-aged?  It's not a matter of someone being just being tasteless; it's a sexual predator using the forum to get his jollies!  These people have to be stopped immediately or they will go on to re-offend, over and over again.  

    It makes you wonder if some women that are less vocal than you didn't just quietly leave the site, feeling all the emotions you are feeling.  It didn't even happen to me, but I feel enraged that it happened to you and some other decent people here.  

    We all make this site what it is and we deserve to feel safe from predators that will likely to this again.



    This post was edited by PeaPod is just popping by at March 1, 2017 7:34 PM MST
      February 28, 2017 2:32 PM MST
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  • 17261
    Part of my reason posting this discussion. Thank you. :-)
      February 28, 2017 2:36 PM MST
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  • 3463
    SH, are you scared?
    Seeing something like that is both shocking and scary because you don't know what he will do next.
    And if he is allowed to stay, he WILL do it again.
    He is a sick SOB and needs to be booted ASAP!
      February 28, 2017 12:37 PM MST
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  • 17261
    I'm not scared, and i know how to deal with them. I did on EP. But it won't be pretty, and will be too much drama. I was unprepared here as I've not met this here in my stay of almost an year. You'll be right about him doing it again. Im now aware that he's done it before. People need report these bastards. :-/
      February 28, 2017 2:27 PM MST
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  • 3463
    We can't let pond scum like that ruin this site.
    If we can't feel free to be ourselves and enjoy each others company for fear that some pervert will respond to us we will be less encouraged to comment.
      February 28, 2017 2:56 PM MST
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  • 1128
    WoW Sapphic...I am so sorry this happened to you!  I am literally sick to my stomach this happened. But I appreciate that you posted this.  In NO way are you to blame because you joke and flirt.  Creep will be creeps!!!!!!!!!!

    Some people are truly evil!  :(
      February 28, 2017 12:45 PM MST
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  • 3375
    Even if she can't name names, it's important this gets out there so others can be made aware.  

    Of course no one wants a site over moderated and policed, but we can and should report any grievous violation of the TOS, and THIS is beyond what I would consider a violation.  

    This is a great site because we all DON'T put up with crap from crappy people and what happened here is about as crappy as it comes. 
      February 28, 2017 12:52 PM MST
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  • 1128
    This disturbs me greatly. An over moderated site is no good, but seriously...if this CREEP did this to even one person.......it's not right!!  This is totally unacceptable!!  
      February 28, 2017 1:06 PM MST
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  • 3375
    You don't give sexual predators a second chance because they WILL do it again.  


      February 28, 2017 1:12 PM MST
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  • 1128
    Exactly!!   
      February 28, 2017 1:20 PM MST
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  • 17261
    I wasn't prepared for it here. I had two, maybe three reasons posting this discussion. 1) to make aware about this happening, so others will know it's not just them, 2) the need of reporting creeps like him, or they will continue. Furthermore JA will think everything I see okay whenever she hears nothing, she cannot see what happens in private chats. I now know he did the same to at least three others here, and not just today. 3) let the jerk know I'm not sitting back like a victim but will shout it out loud. Oh, and 4) other creeps will know now that I don't accept stuff like this, and I will take actions against it. Mhmm.
      February 28, 2017 2:45 PM MST
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  • 1128
     SMH....it's a damn shame things like this happen.  Glad you made us aware. YES! When something like this happens we need to empower ourselves by shouting it out!! I won't deal with this BS in real life.I'm NOT going to lay down to accept in online! Silence is NOT consent!! 
    HUGS my dear friend! ((hugs))
      February 28, 2017 2:58 PM MST
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  • 17261
    Thank you sweetie. About time for some cheesecake, eh? :-)
      February 28, 2017 3:10 PM MST
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  • 1128
    YAY! Cheesecake!!  :) :) 
      February 28, 2017 3:14 PM MST
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  • 17261
    :-)
      February 28, 2017 3:24 PM MST
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  • 3463
    I hope you can feel the love SH.
    You are one of ours and we won't stand for some creep messing with you.
      February 28, 2017 3:32 PM MST
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  • 17261
    I'm feeling it LM, and appreciating the support. It's amazing, and unique for this place. I'm thankful :-)
      February 28, 2017 3:37 PM MST
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  • I know I've told you Sapph about myself personally being bombarded by overtly sexual chat messages in my first few weeks here by random profiles I never see in main Q&A. My way of dealing with it was freaking out and "yelling" at them till they backed off. I can see now that it would have been better for me to report the problem for other woman's benefit. I am to the point now if any one with a username I don't recognize try's to chat with me with so much as a "hi" I immediately tell them to back off , leave me alone. So there might be some decent people here who think I'm a psycho bee-ach, but I'm fine with that....

    On a lighter note " Sending woman d*ck pics is for amateurs. A real man gets out there and disappoints woman in real life!"
      February 28, 2017 1:24 PM MST
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  • 17261
    Good joke. You were right, it made me laugh loud. Thank you Hun. You make my day. Ahem.
      February 28, 2017 2:15 PM MST
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  • Yay !!!!! :) sometimes find humour in "blah"  stuff helps ..... Hope your day gets better :) stoopid boys :/ .... :) 
      February 28, 2017 2:19 PM MST
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  • 17261
    Stupid boys. You're the besterest! Cos I said so! :-)
      February 28, 2017 2:23 PM MST
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