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Thebigd

Have you ever had someone come up to you and call you by name, but you didn't recognize them?

I have had that happen a few times. In most cases it was a little first or second grader that rode the school bus with me while I was in high school. They recognized me , but I didn't recognize because they were grown up. Have you ever had that happen?

Posted - March 5, 2017
Tag : not recognizing

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  • 5808
    yes a few times
    so embarrassing that i
    didn't remember them.
      March 5, 2017 8:35 AM MST
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  • 104
    Another instance for me was one of my classmates coming up to me with his head shaven and no longer wearing glasses and expected me to recognize him. I could have clobbered him. We both laughed about it. Lol.
      March 5, 2017 8:40 AM MST
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  • 5614
    Just tell them you're having a senior moment.
      March 5, 2017 8:41 AM MST
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  • 6124
    Yes.  Sadly, it wasn't anywhere near what you are describing happened to you bigd.  If I haven't seen someone I am acquainted with in a long time (not talking about a good friend) or, someone I might have met a week before for a brief moment, I usually don't recognize them.  If they jog my memory and I remember meeting them, I usually still don't remember their name.  Very embarrassing.  One woman I have done that to on more than a couple of occasions AND, if I saw her today, I would still be at a loss.  I think it might be a purposeful yet unconscious block on my part. 


    This post was edited by Harry at March 5, 2017 9:30 AM MST
      March 5, 2017 8:52 AM MST
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  • 314

    Yes. 

    It happens a lot to people who have done any amount of public speaking/appearance.

      March 5, 2017 9:22 AM MST
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  • 7792
    I've had that happen one time in my life.
      March 5, 2017 9:30 AM MST
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  • 10052
    Yes, I seem to have a real problem remembering the names of people I meet now. I'd probably remember the name of a little kid who rode the school bus with me 30 years ago, but if I met someone today, their name would probably be lost to me tomorrow! I think I need to work on being more present in the moment, maybe?
      March 5, 2017 9:31 AM MST
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  • 6124
    I think you bring up a good point.  I've recently been working on being more present in the moment.  I have found myself driving and suddenly realize I have been lost in my thoughts for a good 5 minutes and don't remember passing anything.  Those are the moments that almost guarantee an accident IMO.  Staying focused was always a strong point for me and now I seem to be lost in a quagmire of brain fart randomness. This post was edited by Harry at March 5, 2017 9:50 AM MST
      March 5, 2017 9:37 AM MST
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  • 10052
    I think about the same thing, Harry. I completely miss my turn or exit and then think about how I obviously wasn't paying enough attention! I suppose getting lost in our thoughts is almost as dangerous as texting and driving!
      March 5, 2017 9:46 AM MST
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  • 13395
    I try to pull that stunt with my lady sometimes when I have a feeling she's going to ask for money.
      March 5, 2017 9:38 AM MST
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  • 22891
    not that i remember but ive called people by name and they didnt remember me
      March 8, 2017 1:55 PM MST
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