No sweetnes... it's a horribly counterproductive thing... I wish more people learned to love themselves and to be able to view themselves more accurately - strengths and weaknesses.
Achieves what exactly? One day you'll realise you don't deserve this feelings ... Sure, we all screw up, make mistakes and do things were not proud of maybe ... But learn from them and move on ... One day you will ... Why not make that day today?
Some things are difficult to overcome without professional help. If this continues, I suggest you seek someone to help you evaluate whether you are inappropriately assuming some blame that does not belong to you.
"But" negates everything I said in my reply.---That would be a serious error on anyone's part.---I would accept a statement phrased, "It is also necessary to assess and accept responsibility for one's own faults."---(I assumed that would be done.)---
If multiple causation is suspected, differential diagnosis is necessary----which requires the assignment of blame to the responsible factors---all of which many not reside in you.
Some people were raised by being shamed and guilted and are therefore prone to thinking that carrying the world on their shoulders is their primary responsibility.---
I'm ecstatic that you do not have that issue---it can be permanently debilitating.---
Well..................ok. You gave me a push in the right direction. However, I do have some love to share with you if you want it.
This post was edited by Zack at April 3, 2017 2:28 PM MDT
Benedict Arnold 