Discussion»Questions»Relationships» Girls: Would you get into a relationship with a very attractive pwho you know has cheated on his partner previously?
Probably not. I kind of feel like I've been transferred into an alternate reality lately because I'm trying to meet people. I don't care about the past so much as I do what they learned from it. People should be evolving and they should improve themselves from their past experiences, but remarkably few do. I can look back on my previous relationships and see what I did wrong and try not to repeat those mistakes, but a lot of men don't. So, when I'm talking to someone and I say, "Why'd you divorce?" and they say, "Because my ex was a b*tch," I say, "Good luck with your search. Buh bye." So, if a man admits to cheating on an ex, that's not a deal-breaker, per se, but if he says he cheated because his ex did something, no. He needs to own his actions, not blame them on something someone else did.
I do think once someone has cheated, they're more likely to do it again, but if they've grown as a person, they may not.
Benedict Arnold 