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Is younger man with older girl the latest trend in sexual relationships? If you're in such a relationship long term, has it worked out well?

Posted - April 17, 2017

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  • What age difference are you considering?
      April 17, 2017 1:09 PM MDT
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  • Between 10 and 20 years. 
      April 17, 2017 1:35 PM MDT
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  • Why should this be any more odd than the male being older?
      April 17, 2017 1:53 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    Not sure it's a trend as such... it always happened.... it's just that people are more able to be open about it now... my last bf was over 20 years younger than me.. he was mature for his age.. but unfortunately we were just too different for it to work - which was a shame as I know he is still very upset about it.but I needed someone i could talk to and have shared background with...

    Quite a few of those i dated were younger... it wasn't a choice as such... just worked out that way
      April 17, 2017 1:10 PM MDT
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  • I was with a man younger by 20 years for afew months. Then three years with a man older by 10 years. Am considering another man younger by 8 years. 
      April 17, 2017 1:40 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    Sounds like a good compromise 
      April 17, 2017 2:13 PM MDT
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  • 234
    It always is the person, not the age.
      April 26, 2017 1:00 PM MDT
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  • All young bucks should have a go at it.  
      April 17, 2017 1:30 PM MDT
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  • It's good for the does as well. 
      April 17, 2017 1:37 PM MDT
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  • :D
      April 17, 2017 1:41 PM MDT
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  • Trend implies doing this from peer pressure .. why not just follow your heart where it leads?
      April 17, 2017 2:28 PM MDT
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  • Not necessarily per presure. I just happen to see a little more of it than earlier, especially among celebrities and the upper (richer) class. 
      April 18, 2017 7:07 PM MDT
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  • Often the trend setters
      April 18, 2017 7:09 PM MDT
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  • Right. 
      April 18, 2017 7:11 PM MDT
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  • I prefer a nice age gap...with the man being older. I don't find men my age or younger very intriguing.
      April 17, 2017 2:30 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    seems like it, ive never been in a relationship
      April 19, 2017 2:50 PM MDT
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  • 3463
    At my age, if I were looking, which I am not, I would look for a younger man because women live longer as a rule.
    I have already outlived one and I don't want to do that again.
      April 26, 2017 1:15 PM MDT
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