I think some and some.. there's probably no one size fits all but as Slarti said studies to seem to indicate that those who are married live longer, have fewer health problems and are more content.. That's not to say it suits everyone and a very unhappy marriage would more than likely have the opposite effect.. But I think there are more marriage bashers out and about these days..people who are anti marriage or who have had a bad experience, or experiences... sure they have their own perspective but we mustn't forget that marriage can and does work for many people too. Oh before I go.. I do recognise that one doesn't have to be married to be happy.. but a relationship or relationships which are nourishing and nurturing have to be a good thing