I have an aunt who had surgery last fall. I went to see her after she was there a few days and was bummed b/c she went home the morning I was heading in. I sent her a message to visit her at her home (on FB which she is always on) and she never returned my message. She was on everyday and saw the message , and wrote to others, but not me, I felt so low. I then texted her a month later asking about her condition and got no reply again. I felt even lower. I thought about calling but after being ignored twice I did not. I know she is a phone person, but I am not and she does not even let me speak when we talk on phone... she recently had another surgery, more in depth , a week ago, and I wanted to surprise her in hospital and again, they let her go the morning I was going in... Her daughter had told me she'd be there 2 more days, but guess she was mistaken too. I sent her a card a few days ago but don't know what to do.. she may be in rehab now but do I go? I feel like she didn't care to see me , answer me, or anything, and I just don't know what to do... I want to be there, yet it feels quite awkward. Ever had any similar experience ?
Benedict Arnold 