Discussion»Questions»Emotions» You don't know/understand something. Do you politely ask for an explanation or do you attack/insult due to frustration? Why?
[ The frustration-aggression hypothesis was proposed by Dollard, Doob, Miller, Mower, and Sears (1939). ]
I'm always open minded about anything I don't understand---but that doesn't happen very frequently. I learned in graduate school that it's advantageous to become an expert in something before discussing it.
Fortunately, that is a lot easier to accomplish than most people think. Knowing more about the topic than 95% of the people in the discussion one is involved in is not a particularly high bar to get over.
You mean there is an hypothesis/syndrome/typicality that covers it? From 1939 yet? Oy vey! Who knew? Thank you for your reply tom. So you went to Graduate School? What was/is your field of expertise? :)
Thank you for your reply Sharon! Some folks here only show up to attack. Otherwise they are ciphers. Silent. biding their time. Waiting to POUNCE! Thems the ones I usually ignore. :(