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Do you collect people? What do you do with them?

Posted - July 17, 2017

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  • 22891
    no, i dont collect people
      July 17, 2017 1:00 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    LOL I *wish* I could collect people :P  I did used to in a way... for specific reasons... I never did them any harm and they were happy to be collected... it was fully consensual so to speak... but now I don't do that kind of collecting... I would like to collect some for my new purpose.. online friendship.. 
      July 17, 2017 4:41 PM MDT
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  • 113301
    Thank you for your reply Addb. I used to do so years ago.  But I don't now. It's too exhausting to keep up. I'd go out of my way to be super nice to someone because I felt like it. But then you find it becomes expected of you and that's not fine at all. My own fault. I set up a situation that they thought would always be. I get exuberant at times and go all out..sincerely. But I cannot keep it up. I am not always in an exuberant mood. So I have learned over the years that people spoil easily so don't spoil them.  Happy Tuesday! :)
      July 18, 2017 10:18 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    Only in mind and memory.  I treasure people.  I try to.   I even try and treasure my foes because they are teachers in the game of life.    Everyone has a purpose.  And the old adage, (paraphrased)  'if you truly love someone, set them free; if they return, then that person and you are meant to spend time together'...usually holds true.


    This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at July 17, 2017 8:12 PM MDT
      July 17, 2017 8:10 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    "foes because they are teachers"---reminds me of an old line from a TV shows many years ago:  "It was not the way I had dreamed of learning."
      July 18, 2017 10:44 AM MDT
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