Discussion»Questions»Relationships» Ever had such a bad showdown with a partner that you both made long suppressed derogatory remarks about each others' sexual performance?
Oh probably at one time or other long ago and far away.
Shelter From The Storm Bob Dylan
'Twas in another lifetime, one of toil and blood When blackness was a virtue the road was full of mud I came in from the wilderness, a creature void of form Come in, she said I'll give ya shelter from the storm
And if I pass this way again, you can rest assured I'll always do my best for her, on that I give my word In a world of steel-eyed death, and men who are fighting to be warm Come in, she said I'll give ya shelter from the storm
Not a word was spoke between us, there was little risk involved Everything up to that point had been left unresolved Try imagining a place where it's always safe and warm Come in, she said I'll give ya shelter from the storm
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I seriously try not to do that.. men are very sensitive about that subject... I avoid and evade for I cannot lie :P But there have been a few times when it was totally unavoidable.. like the time when one, who had been very special, asked me to *recommend* him to women I know.. He said to me, 'go on, you know I'm GOOD.' I confess, I nearly burst out laughing... and perhaps did allow a titter or two before saying, 'no, seriously, you aren't' Thing was - he really wasn't and I couldn't have disappointed other ladies with false advertising :P
Nope. In arguments, I never say things just to cause pain or that I will regret later. Oftentimes when people do that, whatever they've said is most likely a lie anyway. When it's truthful, it means they've probably held it hidden and brought it out only as ammunition in a fire-fight.
My use of the phrase "long suppressed" was deliberate, as you probably noticed.
This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at August 12, 2017 12:55 AM MDT
No, I wouldn't do that. Even if my partner isn't compatible with me in some way sexually I can always find ways to make it work. My ex was the woman of my dreams in some ways, but not every time we did it was perfect. After our marriage ended I did try to find out if there was something that I wasn't doing right or if there was something wrong with me? I said "I thought the sex was good." She said that it had nothing to do with sex, it was our relationship that was the problem. So we never did get into putting each other down over sex, but we did argue about absolutely everything else. : (
Thriftymaid, I became single about three months ago after a three-year long-distance relationship ended bitterly. No heated remarks about each other's sexual performance were exchanged, thouh the quality of sex had deteriorated considerably on both sides. My work colleague and I are very fond of each other, and our relationship is neither clandestine nor committed, at least not yet. You do not know the details, so I can't blame you for inferring wrongly.
This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at August 11, 2017 11:57 PM MDT
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