Umm....maybe it depends on the woman your with and how things are going in the relationship. I think a parents love for their child is unconditional or it should be, but spouses especially these days seem to be in a constant struggle to get what they want from each other. If they aren't fulfilling one another's needs it tends to end in infidelity, separation and divorce. So it seems like it is conditional.
I do believe that two people can be so much in love that they forget about all of their issues and they can live in complete bliss together for a while anyway.
I wasn't really compatible with my ex in a lot of ways and our relationship got harder and harder as life got harder so I'm hoping that finding compatibility in my next girlfriend will be what makes it last.
So yeah, it's not really unconditional for either sex because if I loved my ex wife unconditionally then I would still be with her no matter how bad she treats me, but I can only get hurt so much before I lose all respect for myself.
I'm not a man but you're going to get an answer from me because your question pisses me off. NO, just like men aren't wired to give conditional love to women. It is completely dependent upon the individual, the values they've been taught, and the relationship they find themselves in. I'm really getting tired of all the woman bashing I'm seeing on various web sites. Men can be just as shallow, or as deep, or as unconditional, or conditional, in their love for a woman, as women can be with men.
No. Love is not conditioned. That being said, we all should have boundaries about what we can do and take. Let those boundaries be known. But helping your spouse be the happiest they can be .......that's the focus. When spouses put each other first, amazing things can happen. Best not to watch daytime TV talk shows either. ;)
Slartibartfast 