Discussion»Questions»Family» Have you ever seen either of your parents weep because you responded rudely to their well meant advice about your personal life?
That's a really hard question for me to answer Nellie. My childhood wasn't typical. Knowing them the way I did, I probably would not have liked their giving me advice, since they each didn't live their lives in the most responsible way. They weren't very good parents.
Never ever weeped , but my mum had a certain disparaging look that stoped me in my track and made me realize that I'd stepped over the mark yet again.....I'd then give my parents a bit of respite before returning to normal again.......
You know Neelie, come to think of it, No. We were always taught respect your elders and most definitely respect your parents. What they said, GOES. Regardless. Almost all the time they laid down the law, it was for our own safety. It wasn't to make our lives miserable. They loved us so much, they wanted to do everything in their power to make sure they did. I will say, however, in my own defense, they made some mistakes along the way. I did too. We don't come with handbooks. I am very different from sister who is absolutely perfect in my book. I know there was pain and anguish but that comes with all growing and learning experiences of life.
Harry 