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Do you obsess/fret about/focus on what doesn't work for you? Why not focus ONLY on what does? That way ya don't fret/obsess.! Good, right?

Posted - December 17, 2017

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  • 22891
    i try not to
      December 25, 2017 1:59 PM MST
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  • 6477
    I think we probably will fret etc... it's human nature. Easier to say dismiss it than to do it. But I try not to let it take over my life.. I have had a taste of that lately.. work situation is bothering me - a LOT... but while I cannot deny or dismiss it - I do try to enjoy all the other aspects of my life... 

    BTW I hope you are ok.. I have missed your questions. THose were the good old days for me. when I could come here and answer loads of questions and think about the happenings in the world. 
      December 25, 2017 3:40 PM MST
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  • 113301
    I've noticed your absence and just assumed you'd moved on to fun frolicsome activities. I'm sorry to hear they were your "good old days" m'dear. That means that these days are not so much that good. Of course what has happened due to doofus don continues on unabated. Every day in every way he gets worser and worser and worser and worser. Who knew that a clown puppet whose strings are pulled by a hostile foreign nation leader could so that much damage? Are you back on Answermug now or just a short-term drop-in? Anyway you found me. Why I have my own  little plot of land is that unbeknownst to me I was driving reclassifiers crazy! Just Asking wrote and told me that my questions often can fit into a variety of categories and the reclassifiers couldn't figure out where to put me. So she came up with what I think is a BRILLIANT solution! Make me a category! I can ask whatever I want without worrying about where to put it but more importantly I am no longer on a reclassfier's radar! Hope your Christmas was Merry and that rolling forward gets better and better. Not just for you m'dear. For everyone!  Happy Tuesday to thee Addb! :) ((hugs)) This post was edited by RosieG at December 26, 2017 4:54 AM MST
      December 26, 2017 4:53 AM MST
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  • 6477
    Take heart, if any can be had while the Doofus is busy making America UN-great - many of my American friends say the same things as you - so by no means are you a lone voice. Sadly just a drop in... I had hoped to have christmas break off but in reality it will probably just be a few days as I have much to read before the term starts again.  The course is a 2 year one and next academic year is likely to be worse re eating time but I can at least hope that there will be some breaks where I get some time. No fun and frollics for me - just reading, studying and working but whenever and if ever I can I will be popping back here 
      December 26, 2017 8:32 AM MST
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  • 6477
    So how do I find your questions now? Do I have to go to a special category?
      December 26, 2017 8:33 AM MST
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  • 113301
    I am the last one on the category list Addb. "Rosie's Corner"  It is not alphabetical so if you stopped in the R's you wouldn't find me. Thanks for asking. Sorry I'm late replying! Happy Friday!  :)
      December 29, 2017 2:12 AM MST
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  • 113301
    I shall look forward to those times m'dear BUT of course education always comes first!  And for me learning is "fun and frolics" so enjoy enjoy enjoy! :) I bet you are an OUTSTANDING student Addb! :)
      December 29, 2017 2:14 AM MST
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