When my so called middle aged grown up little sister decided that Facebook was a great way to work out her imaginative grudges towards me after the death of our mother. I don't do personal stuff on a public forum and I will walk away from anyone for good that does it. Without common decency and respect, I won't even try to work stuff out.
She's been a drama queen all our lives, but crossed a line she can't ever erase. I haven't felt anger like that in decades.
I would say I am feeling stronger and more committed to the people that have been good to me all along. I occasionally feel a wave of nostalgia for a time that is long gone, but I figure if I didn't feel that, there would be something wrong with me.
Unfortunately, I do hear she is still a very unhappy person. That makes me sad. I feel lucky to have survived my nutty family with my heart intact.
Thanks for asking. It's been a process letting go a sibling I loved very much.