Never happens. Never has happened in all our years since 1983. Women have always liked him as a friend only. And it's obvious why from first meeting. If it did happen, I'd be curious.
It is a sign of disrespect to purposely flirt. If the person is overcome by his dashing good looks upon first meeting him and melts a little...well that is understandable. : ) and only momentary. Purposefully flirting is not allowed.
This post was edited by Sunshine at January 14, 2018 11:27 AM MST
Are those two choices the only ones you're giving us from which to choose? Fine, neither one truly applies in my situation, but of the two, I'm definitely not offended by it.
I never found it insulting, and never really thought of it as flattering. If someone was unaware he was taken, I brushed it off. If someone went there knowing he was spoken for...it told me a lot about them, and what it told me wasn't flattering to them.
I've never seen it happen, but then I don't go to the bar with her. If I were there, I would be annoyed and tell him to stop. If he didn't we would have a problem.
