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Old folks like me, what's a message you'd like to address to the Millenials? ~




Posted - February 9, 2018

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  • 6098
    That means young people who have come of age since 2000?   Like my stepdaughters.  They are good but I notice among so many young people there seems to be a kind of sense of entitlement like they are somehow owed this and that. Which is just wrong and certainly impractical.  And I would like to say to them "OK you are not owed anything so just please get real".  I mean a lot of people in my generation got handed a lot of things but we never felt we were "entitled" to them.  So I don't know where that comes from.  I mean besides the liberal politicians. 
      February 9, 2018 9:31 AM MST
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  • 19937
    Liberal politicians are not raising your children, you are.  Stop blaming everything on government and start to parent your kids.  They me be the center of your universe, but they need to understand that they aren't the center of THE universe.
      February 9, 2018 10:06 AM MST
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  • Well said.

    It's interesting that as a millennial who has worked in a job dealing with customers, whenever I came across entitled customers who felt the rules shouldn't apply to them, they were always middle-aged or older. The younger customers were generally more polite and understanding. So while I'm not denying officegirl's experiences, it's been the complete opposite experience in my case (which leads me to believe that no generation is significantly more "entitled" than any other. My dad said that when he was my age, the older generation accused his generation (he is a Boomer) of being "entitled". 
      February 9, 2018 10:14 AM MST
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  • 19937
    I don't believe in tarring an entire group of people with the same broad brush.  I'm a boomer and I don't feel I'm entitled to anything more than what I've worked for myself.  Age does not automatically confer respect or a slacking of the rules.  I am however, disposed to giving up my seat to someone who clearly is older than I am or seems physically fragile.  I will also hold the door for those same people. 
      February 9, 2018 10:19 AM MST
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  • 3375
    The one thing I have observed for YEARS is how many older people don't think they need to obey simple traffic laws and etiquette.  I am actually blown away when I see one use a darn turn signal.  

    Other than that, I really try not to broad brush anyone.  LOL
      February 9, 2018 10:49 AM MST
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  • 6477
    Well as you would expect I find I disagree. While it's very true that we, as parents have responsibility and ultimately we are the ones who raise kids... but we have to remember too that these are very different times and our kids are exposed to so many more influences now than they were when we were raised and so parents don't have the sole input so we really cannot hold parents responsible for this sense of entitlement that young people really DO seem to have, (UK and US) Put it this way. IF it were all down to parents then this would affect some young people.. but the thing is its widescale, UK and US ... so that tells us its not individual parents, or even some parents.. there's something else at play. And lets  face it there really IS a lot less power now for parents in raising their kids.. we are more limited in many ways... and that bit IS government.. not necessarily liberal just successive governments 
      February 9, 2018 10:29 AM MST
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  • 19937
    I have several nieces and nephews in that age group and I can assure you, none of them feel entitled.
      February 9, 2018 4:53 PM MST
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  • 6098
    Very true. Actually I never had children of my own to parent and although I have done a little with my stepdaughters they have a mother and a functioning one. 
      April 13, 2018 5:49 AM MDT
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  • but randy muh validation 
      February 9, 2018 9:48 AM MST
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  • But can I still take a photo of my food and post it on Instagram? Because I feel like I can't eat if I don't do that first ;) This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at February 9, 2018 5:28 PM MST
      February 9, 2018 10:15 AM MST
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  • 6477
    I know this is cynical... which isn't like me.. but I wouldn't bother trying.. they won't listen anyway.. 
      February 9, 2018 10:30 AM MST
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  • 6098
    Which I think is a function of how much they like and respect you.  Which sometimes my adult stepdaughters have but mostly my life is meaningless to young people who I guess find nothing to admire or emulate. And I so seldom encounter any in my daily life its like though we live in the same world we occupy different parts of it. I know nothing of current trends or technology which I guess I am not interested in.  Speaking as a middle boomer.  And I'm thinking perhaps some "rules" we have just forgotten to obey while others we have learned we don't have to. Just the other day I was pulled over and given a warning by a police officer for not coming to a full stop while driving before making a turn.  Now that turn I make multiple times per day and have for years. So I got into bad habits through familiar usage. 
      April 13, 2018 6:08 AM MDT
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  • 3375
    This may be hard to believe, but I have had a lot more experience in this life than you have had.  And don't assume that I am not up on some of the current trends and technology.  
      February 9, 2018 10:46 AM MST
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  • 53509

      What are you talking about " than I have had"?  How or why would you assume that either of us knows each other's lives well enough to determine which one has more life experience?
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      April 13, 2018 5:43 AM MDT
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  • 22891
    dont have one
      February 9, 2018 4:31 PM MST
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  • 1326
    Follow the golden rule. "All things, therefore, that you want men to do to you, you also must likewise do to them." (Matthew 7:12)
      April 12, 2018 10:55 PM MDT
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