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Somebody help me

losing it

too many sudden changes in my life
trying to deal and not be a wimp about it all

just venting 

Posted - February 18, 2018

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  • 1340
    Go ahead and vent. You'll have dealt with it when ready.
      February 18, 2018 11:49 AM MST
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  • 22853
    Thanks, Danilo_G. I don't know what else to say at the moment.
      February 18, 2018 11:56 AM MST
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  • 22853
    Yes, I guess I'd need to be ready.
      February 18, 2018 7:01 PM MST
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  • 5808
    Let it be.
    Don't react.
    Do what must be done.
    ...and watch it go by...
      February 18, 2018 6:44 PM MST
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  • 22853
    In some ways, i need to give myself credit perhaps.
    those first three points you wrote--  I've been trying to do those, perhaps not consciously or in those exact words but they're close enough.
    And if I do those first three, perhaps the fourth may happen.
    I could hope so.

    Thanks, Baba
      February 18, 2018 7:00 PM MST
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  • 6098
    I am thinking why not be a "wimp" whatever that means to you.  If in trying to save face you are only losing it. 
    You are not specific but I think its good for us to understand that we are not in control of everything nor should we try to be. Perhaps you need to let go of things and just watch them recede into the distance of their own accord.  Always good to continue with the things that give your life meaning and enjoyment on a daily basis.  That help you be happy. 

    Becoming older we can't help but see contexts and references change. Having grown up preparing ourselves to deal with the way they once were.  Then we find that way is gone or assumed no longer valid.  Well it is still valid for us if that is what we have lived and what we have prepared for. 
      March 1, 2018 6:56 AM MST
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  • 22853
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts, officegirl. Things I need to remember, yes.

      March 1, 2018 7:17 AM MST
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  • 6098
    You are welcome.
      March 1, 2018 7:28 AM MST
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  • 46117
    Vent away.....

      March 1, 2018 6:59 AM MST
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  • 22853
    Love it!
    :)
      March 1, 2018 7:18 AM MST
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