Has anyone ever advised you not to get divorced, or not to get divorced again? If so, who was it and why? ~

no cause ive never been married

I only discussed it with a couple of people.  I didn't care to hear what anyone else thought about my decision.  So, I divorced and then let people find out.  Even.....especially my mother.  It's just much better to hear it after there is no chance of affecting the outcome.