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Would you be flattered if the stranger you're flirting with gets up in the middle of a date with someone else and wants to leave with you? ~


Posted - April 8, 2018

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  • 5354
    No. I would chide myself as a churlish boor intruding on their date. Some things you just do not do. This post was edited by JakobA the unAmerican. at April 9, 2018 5:14 PM MDT
      April 8, 2018 11:44 PM MDT
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  • 53490
     
      Thank you. 
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      April 9, 2018 12:05 AM MDT
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  • 7939
    I'm with JakobA. I can't imagine myself knowingly flirting with someone I knew was on a date with someone else. For argument's sake, assuming I didn't know he was on a date, I wouldn't be flattered at all. Anyone who could behave like that is clearly no catch and havng his attention would be meaningless to me. 
      April 9, 2018 12:20 AM MDT
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  • 53490

      Thank you. 

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      April 9, 2018 12:21 AM MDT
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  • 14795
    That would never ever happen ...... So sorry you Randy Devil ....you'll just have to carry on eating your heart out....this Gals well and truly spoken for ....:)D 

    Id just like to say ,it's a bit blasé asking this sort of question publicly ....discression here should have been the way to go to save face and not give the game away.....

    :( 
      April 9, 2018 2:39 AM MDT
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  • 53490

      You had me at properly writing the word "blasé"!  Take me, I'm yours.


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      April 10, 2018 4:42 AM MDT
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  • 14795
    I can be quite dashing when I have the correct line .....
    .... I thought it would tick you of at first though.....:) 
      April 10, 2018 4:47 AM MDT
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  • 53490

    (off)

      And just like that, we're back to square one. 



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      April 10, 2018 5:05 AM MDT
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  • 14795
    Can't for once in your life blame my IPad for making these grammatical gaffs ....F off .....of off is no big deal nowhour days...if you catch my drift.   :) D
      April 10, 2018 6:38 AM MDT
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  • 5354
    I guess neither of you noticed the 'discression'


    Fron Urban Dictionary:
    discression - when you slightly hide your balls down the side of your pants
    wow i hardly noticed his balls he has good discression
    This post was edited by JakobA the unAmerican. at April 12, 2018 12:17 PM MDT
      April 12, 2018 11:13 AM MDT
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  • 14795
    Thankfully ,I've never found the need two hide such things .

    Now I think I know why Randy is always so stressed out and So Up Tight all the time .....it's because he he like to be the one wearing the trousers around his home and the only pairs that are there to pick from are his wife's....:) D  
      April 12, 2018 12:23 PM MDT
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  • 19937
    No.  In the first place, I wouldn't flirt with someone I knew was on a date and secondly, if he would do it to that person, he would do it to me and that's unacceptable.
      April 9, 2018 6:24 AM MDT
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  • 23534

    Most have already said what I was thinking.
    But, I'll add again, you have a perfect knack of finding images of beautiful people!

    (And in a purely, purely, fantasy-only way, if that guy came over to me . . .  )

    Maybe not . . . I'd feel guilty, even in a fantasy.
    :)



    This post was edited by WelbyQuentin at April 10, 2018 4:32 AM MDT
      April 9, 2018 10:50 AM MDT
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      April 10, 2018 4:33 AM MDT
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  • 3375
    Absolutely not!  I would be horrified.  

    Years ago, I had a friend in high school that seem to make it a hobby to flirt with every guy I was dating and she did indeed manage to get some of them to go off with her.  I thought there was something wrong with me!  Now I look back and think what a sorry loser that girl was and how immature the boys were then.

    I do judge people how they treat others.  I would never want a man that lacked character.  
      April 9, 2018 11:03 AM MDT
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  • 10980
    I wasn't flirting and I'm not leaving with you, Randy.
      April 9, 2018 5:16 PM MDT
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  • 53490

      So you mean to tell me that batting your eyes while biting your bottom lip, making kissy-faces, waving at me, doing the "call me" signal, lifting the hem of your skirt to show me some leg, none of that was flirting, right?


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      April 10, 2018 4:39 AM MDT
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  • 10980
    You have quite an imagination. I was rolling my eyes, trying not to gag, waving you away, making the 'I'm calling the cops' signal, and lifting the hem of my skirt so that I could give you a good kick in the rear.
      April 12, 2018 5:52 AM MDT
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  • 53490


      Oh. The feisty type, huh?  I like it, I like it. 



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      April 12, 2018 5:59 AM MDT
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  • 5354
    Wasn't that described as a dating tecknique in "How I met your mother", Goint to the bar with a fruend of the opposite sex who would them loudly break up and leave whwn yo gave the cue tha yoou had spotted  your 'target'. I dont think it ever worked, not on yhat show
      April 9, 2018 5:27 PM MDT
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  • 53490

      I've never watched the show, but that sounds like a great idea . . .



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      April 10, 2018 5:07 AM MDT
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  • 6098
    I would not consciously flirt under those circumstances.  And how could I be flattered by anyone who would do such a thing?  I have been left in the middle of a date and it was not fun nor did it do anything for my self-esteem. 
      April 10, 2018 6:54 AM MDT
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