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Would you be happy not having a man or woman in your life?

Posted - May 14, 2018

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  • 22891
    no and i know that cause i dont have one
      May 14, 2018 4:30 PM MDT
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  • 14795
    No....I'm well and truly a Smitten Kitten.....:)D 
      May 14, 2018 4:38 PM MDT
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  • 8214
    Love your shoes BTW. 
      May 14, 2018 4:49 PM MDT
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  • 14795
    I wish I could give an askers pick........lol......Thanks....I love them two ..
    I have them in white also ,but the black looks far more noticeable .....lol
      May 14, 2018 6:18 PM MDT
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  • 8214
    No, there can be a softer side, which is nice.
      May 14, 2018 4:50 PM MDT
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  • 23570
    Yes, I've got to be happy on my own because I truly believe my happiness cannot depend on whether someone special is in my life, i.e. a 'significant other.'

    I've had someone in my life - - yeah, it was fun, within the parameters of our relationship desires -- but he chose to leave. (I was, and still am, OK with his decision because he was upfront with me when he said he wished to leave the relationship.)

    Sure - - I see a couple of guys right now in my life, both of whom live near me, whom I would like to be closer to. It looks like things, though, will remain, possibly, at a casual friendship level.

    But for me to then let such things ruin my happiness in life? No way! I refuse to let outside circumstances dictate my inner happiness.

    I am a worthy person on my own, deserving of happiness.

    Yes, as anyone reading this can tell, I'm trying hard to remind myself of these truths for me. It's sometimes challenging, I admit.
    :)


    This post was edited by WelbyQuentin at May 14, 2018 7:15 PM MDT
      May 14, 2018 5:51 PM MDT
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  • 17590
    Yes.  I've been happy for years at a time without a man in my life.  We plant our own gardens and grow our own happiness.  :)
      May 14, 2018 7:09 PM MDT
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  • 23570
    Related image
      May 15, 2018 9:02 AM MDT
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  • 19937
    Happiness has to come from within yourself - you can't depend on someone else to give it to you.  I have been happy with and without a man I my life.
      May 15, 2018 11:11 AM MDT
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