Oh dear..... I never thought I'd have to explain things to AM's own special linguist ........Have you never heard of the Femme Fatale... Paula the Trigger :(
Hi Randy~ My happily married friend and lover of knowledge, the English written language, and tidles~
I would venture to say the answers you receive will vary vastly between married and previously-married men. A married man might say, it is a leap of faith...
and the previously-married man might say... You don't know what you're getting into.
It's all a matter of opinion and experience. Tough question to answer..