Shouldn't marriage be a sad occasion? Just think...a man's life is being destroyed.

God knows,it's something I would never ever do.... Who would have me anyway ! ... :) 

I am  of the opinion that two lives could potentially be destroyed - more if kids are involved, however not necessarily.   If two people are willing to put in the work and maintenance required, it can be a rewarding union.    I am also of the opinion that two people can have a successful life together without the piece of paper.  I would choose to not remarry if I am ever single again for whatever reason. This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at December 11, 2018 5:16 PM MST

no cause not everyone thinks of it that way

The bride firmly believes it is the high point of her life - like it's all downhill from there.

Most marriages are based on the wrong reasons, are total  nonsense and both wind up destroying part of their and their children's lives. 

One vagina for the rest of your life...still less chance of chlamydia, warts, herpes. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9PEdGOVQaFI

Or, Her life is Sucked up.