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What's the biggest lesson your experience has taught you about relationships?

For me, it's never to get into a relationship with an office colleague.

Posted - December 23, 2018

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  • 21165
    Don't get into any. People are users.
      December 23, 2018 6:41 PM MST
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  • 9224
    Not every one is like that.....There are more good people then evil ones.....if not for the unsung people that keep things running ,don't rob or steal and don't think there are better then others ,the world would be a far different place.....

    Its part of Juggs Law now as you well know....:) 
      December 24, 2018 5:28 AM MST
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  • 5850
    Everybody I meet seems to think that I am supposed to be better at it than they are, and if not then I am rejected.
      December 23, 2018 6:45 PM MST
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  • 21165
    Hence my answer.
      December 23, 2018 6:46 PM MST
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  •   December 23, 2018 9:00 PM MST
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  • 9224
    How true...:) 
      December 24, 2018 5:30 AM MST
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  • 4460
    Always have a Plan B.
      December 24, 2018 3:54 AM MST
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  • 4526
    Well certainly I agree with that.  But mostly I would say that good relationships are less about romance than about just enjoying each other's company and being good friends. 
      December 24, 2018 5:23 AM MST
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  • 9224
    I live with who I work for and have done from my late teens onwards....We've never had any problems and I wouldn't ever want to change things ..
    :)
      December 24, 2018 5:33 AM MST
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  • 21471
    ive never been in a relationship, guys wont even ask nne out
      December 24, 2018 10:45 AM MST
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  • 794
    The "spark" that people are looking for these days, makes them overlook some fantastic people, they have great first dates, but because they don't immediately fancy them, or feel butterflies, they disagree to see them again.  I see this bollocks on the TV all the time, if I'd been that shallow I would never be in the wonderful relationship that I am today.
      December 24, 2018 11:26 AM MST
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  • To come to a conclusion about a certain person based solely on the first date experience is somewhat like judging a book by its cover, isn't it? 
      December 24, 2018 3:02 PM MST
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  • 794
    Yes Neelie, that saying did come to mind, Seasons greetings to you and yours :)
      December 24, 2018 5:56 PM MST
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  • Wishing you a very happy Christmas with your loved one.

      December 24, 2018 3:46 PM MST
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  • 4526
    Yes when we just expect someone to do it all for us we forget that we have to at least get ourselves to the place where they will be able to!
      January 6, 2019 7:18 AM MST
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  • 583
    How not to get fooled or taken
      December 24, 2018 3:08 PM MST
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  • 693
    I've had a relationship with office colleague.. :D
      December 26, 2018 11:02 AM MST
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  • 2769
    Never fall for two people at the same time.  It's pure hell.
      December 26, 2018 5:29 PM MST
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