Would not care to look like her at any age. No, for both of us is not a matter of age though no question youth always I guess has a certain beauty regardless of what we look like. But looked at objectively - I have always been plain and he has always been nebbishy. That is the reality.
Her lack of interest atm. She's going through menopause. The sex is incendiary on the rare occasions when she's in the mood, it just doesn't happen very often.
She takes absolutely forever to tell a story. And while doing it she'll get easily distracted and need reminding of where she left off. It's painful sometimes to ask "How was work today?" and to get a response that goes on over the course of 30 minutes.
She is a surgeon to begin with. Sometimes the work videos she is studying are not my style - Blood, Guts and the attendant gore. I have a strong stomach, some nights it is not that strong. When we area having beverages with her coworkers some of the discussions after an "Interesting Case" are a bit disturbing as well.
On the plus side my Medical Terminology factor has increased.
Vagueness. That sums up a whole raft of symptoms. Using pronouns without first mentioning what he's talking about. Using ambiguous words or phrases. On hearing a question, giving an answer that has no relevance whatsoever. Making decisions on the basis of feelings but then constantly changing his mind. Not thinking about the consequences of an action before doing it. Not paying close attention to observing. Not remembering. Not learning from experience.
Drives me crazy. I would welcome any advice on how to cope.
Kittigate 