What is your "what if"?

I'm not really having any what if moments... I'd need a wish for something being different if it should make sense to me. I'm not in such situation. I wouldn't miss what I got. I'm aware I'm being limited in my choices for the moment, but that won't make it a what if. Hmm. Not sure if I made sense to you. Sorry if not.

All my best for you seeing him again, and that you both will come out great from it. And, you just be as nostalgic as you feel like. :-)

Who knows ... It's our own sliding doors moment ... I think you never know till you draw your last breath and all avenues are then closed. .. Only then can you judge whether a decision was right or wrong ... We have a saying down here ... a souffle only rises once .. hugs for the meeting :)

I don't go there.  I find that line of thinking quite boring and useless.  Anything I do not do automatically becomes a "what if".    Since I didn't, I leave it behind. 

What if I had not walked down that particular street that particular night and has not seen that particular woman?

What if I had not approached her?

What if I had approached her but the response would have been different?

What if she had been just another face, another name, another woman?

What if she had not said yes?

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My entire life is. "what if...?"

To me it is an exercise in futility.   

That's sweet Randy :-)

What if EP hadn't closed down...what if I hadn't joined AM...what if I wasn't intrigued by his smart yet grumpy responses...what if I didn't make the first move...I would have missed out on something that's becoming really awesome!

I have learned that life can be short (not saying this because people say this) I went through a life threatening thing recently and now I'm really trying hard to grab life by the horns and go for what I want.  No more "what if's" for me.  :-)

I love that... I'm trying to avoid the "what ifs", this what if person was a huge lesson for me.

Glad things are awesome for you :)

Isn't it wonderful that you'll never know the answers to those? :)

I am truly happy having stayed single all my life and I have no regrets. But...I occasionally wonder if I had said yes to a certain proposal, if I would have been a different person and been just as happy being married and having kids. It's not that I am second guessing myself, it's just that I wonder whether my independent nature is the reason I stayed single or whether it was developed by staying single.

I understand, I don't really regret my choices, because I'm kind of happy with who I am... But you do wonder, right? I think it makes me understand myself better.

Oh well that's good.  :-D

Thank you :-) :-)