When did you realize there is cut and uncut?

Yeah!!!!!!!

Kinda weird to learn what happened to ya.

I didn’t go into the gory details lol. It was the worst sex of my life. The worst. I’m still friends him though and we dated before I was married... so that was a million years ago. 

Oh,oh,oh I mean being a boy learning part of your pocket went into the waste bin. 

Lol oh :) 

First 2 guys I was with were uncut. So That’s all I want to say about that lol. 

You threw his guitar off your balcony because he was too curved upward?  Goodness!

Omg no!!! Lol. There is more to that story why I threw his stuff off my balcony lol. Nothing to do with his dick... he was a dick though. 

Haha. 

Anyway, I’m going to tell the story of why I threw his guitar off the balcony, cos I haven’t before and I feel like it.  He was the first relationship I was in after a very abusive relationship. I had lived with a guy before him. That guy was 30 I was 18 in beginning of that relationship. ( that guy tried to throw ME off a balcony but that’s a story for another day lol) anyway, while dating guitar guy, I got involved with community theatre and took up a lot of my time. I loved it though. He resented how it made me happy. On last night myself and rest of the cast were going out to celebrate end of play. Guy I was dating gave me an ultimatum. Said come home after play, no party... choose to spend time with me. I went home, skipped the party with people who had been a huge part of my life for months... for him. He wasn’t there. GOOD BYE GUTAIR. Good bye ever put a guys ego ahead of my own wants. The end. Lol. 

Thank you for being candid. We will get you onto AdultMug yet.   I would consider any ultimatum abusive.  They want to separate you form anything you like just so you will be more dependent upon them.  Isolate you to puff up their feelings of power and importance (ego).  Then when we are so dependent upon them they hate us anyway because we are - so its no good.  I was older than you were- 26 maybe before I learned about all that. This post was edited by officegirl at March 30, 2019 7:43 PM MDT

The thing is he knew I needed to have something that was my own. I had not had that before I met him. He  knew what I went through in my prior relationship. It hurt me more that he tried to take that from me, my sense of having my own life and my own wants. It’s weird though cos we are still friends to this day. He’s not a bad guy... the sex sucked anyway so I’m glad that didn’t work out lol. This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at March 30, 2019 7:54 PM MDT

Exactly! That's so important.  Without any things of our own we are only our relationships.  Which so much we are anyway without even thinking about it.   For me it was- I wanted to learn to take care of myself.  Which meant I had to acquire skills with which I could get a decent job that paid better than just all the two-bit stuff I did for years.