I'm in shape. Round is a shape. I'm rocking the dad bod - combination of age, a sedentary job, too much beer and a back problem which precudes anything overly strenuous - no lifting, twisting, crunches etc.
Though I am a dad I do not have a "Dads Bod". Marathons, Tri's etc along with a great diet keep us both thin. The "Dads Bod" guys I see from the States, expat or tourist, are interesting. I will leave it at that
I'm gay and I kinda like'em......SOME of them, of course, not all....I like to see a guy with nice pecs and thighs and butt!! even the little 'paunch', as long as it's not too big!! is kinda attractive.......yum!!