Discussion»Questions»Human Behavior» How much time do you give yourself (or did you) between your alarm going off in the morning, and leaving your home for work?
When my kids were young I would get up at 4:30 to have an hour to drink coffee in a quiet house before showering, dressing myself, waking them, dressing them, feeding them, doing the dishes (and sometimes putting in two loads of laundry), before leaving home at 7:10. Thinking about it maked me tired. As they got older and could dress themselves decently (using some random standard) (your standards change with time) I was able to sleep a little longer. I never stopped "cooking" their breakfast and doing dishes before leaving in the morning. They always had real warm food for breakfast. I did buy toaster pops sometimes for after school snacks but never let them call it a breakfast.
I don't bother with an alarm. The kookaburra lets loose a raucous cackle an hour before sunrise. If I don't rise immediately, the cat will pounce on me to demand her breakfast. Once she's fed I have an hour or two to practice a few yoga stretches, some meditation and have some muesli and tea. At 7, I go down to feed the horses. Depending on the day, I might go riding, get into several hours of hard weeding, or return to the house to read or write. The average day is split between research, writing and farmwork. Unless I have to be at the uni, which is two hours away, I work at home.
I hear ya'. If I give myself too much lull time before I have to leave I end up pacing with anticipation. I can't relax at all after getting ready. The waiting kills me.
That depends on if I went to bed the night before. If so, it doesn't matter if it is summer or winter, Don's work has him up by 5 so I am up at 4:45 to make sure he gets coffee and chocolate in bed. My work schedules vary from outrageously hectic to leisurely gentle. It depends. For me to start my day with a clear conscience and alert body, after Don leaves, 15 minutes to 1 1/2 hours. I do wash my hair every now and again. Picking clothes to wear is the longest dilemma. The weather and where I'm going changes hourly.