I've heard all the arguments on "he who don't forgives drinks his own poison"Of "holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expect somebody else to die"And that's not even gettin... moreI've heard all the arguments on "he who don't forgives drinks his own poison"Of "holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expect somebody else to die"And that's not even getting into the religiosity of it all.Shouldn't repentance, reparations, and true remorse be precursors forgiveness?Shouldn't forgiveness be a gift I give to the other guy if he deserves it. Someone who shows genuine remorse, and is willing to pay whatever reparations necessary. Otherwise... What good is it to forgive someone who feel he.hasn't done any wrong?.How bout you, forgive.and.move on, or hold the grudge even if you end up taking it to the grave? less