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Are you flattered when a member of the opposite sex smiles at you?

Posted - August 31, 2021
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  • 7795
    I feel nothing when it comes to that.
      August 31, 2021 1:07 PM MDT
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  • 11161
    I do get flattered but it also a bit scary because when I get flattered I blush and my head turns a deep red color. If I am outside a bear could mistake my head for a giant Huckal berry and bite it off. Cheers! This post was edited by Nanoose at September 2, 2021 6:42 AM MDT
      August 31, 2021 3:26 PM MDT
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  • 3025
    That is so cute.  :  )
      August 31, 2021 4:09 PM MDT
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  • 13395
    It's a good feeling when a lady smiles at me. Maybe they just want to show off that they take good care of their teeth.
      August 31, 2021 3:58 PM MDT
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  • 53526

     

      Yes, I do. It’s much better than:





    ~

      August 31, 2021 4:16 PM MDT
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  • 3025
    hahahaha very true!
      August 31, 2021 4:44 PM MDT
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  • 10052
    I wouldn't say flattered, no. I live in a pretty friendly community and I usually have a pleasant expression and demeanor, so it is often returned by people of both/all genders. 
      August 31, 2021 4:54 PM MDT
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  • 53526

     

      Oh, really? Then I should pop by, right?


    ~

      August 31, 2021 6:43 PM MDT
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  • 10052
    I 'liked' and then quickly 'unliked' when it occurred to me that it could be interpreted as an invitation or affirmative response. 





      September 2, 2021 7:50 PM MDT
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  • 53526

     

      That’s fine. You probably already know that I misinterpret almost everything from you as invitations and affirmations, so it’s a win-win no matter what you do.


    ~

      September 2, 2021 8:28 PM MDT
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  • 10052
    Of course you do. 

    Of course it is. 

    ~
      September 2, 2021 8:31 PM MDT
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  • 44652
    Most people smile at me and I smile back. I don't feel flattered when women do. I did catch one a few years ago 'checking me out'. We both smiled. That was flattering.
      August 31, 2021 5:00 PM MDT
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  • 3025
    Yes...:  )
      August 31, 2021 5:22 PM MDT
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  • 44652
    I still 'had it' back then.
      August 31, 2021 5:29 PM MDT
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  • 19937
    I still have it.  Unfortunately, I can't remember where I put it.
      August 31, 2021 5:41 PM MDT
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  • 53526

    “I don't feel flattered when women do. I did catch one a few years ago 'checking me out'. We both smiled. That was flattering.”

      Wait, what? Isn’t that contradictory?

    :|

      September 1, 2021 7:25 AM MDT
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  • 44652
    A smile and an up and down check out are different.
      September 1, 2021 7:58 AM MDT
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  • 53526

     


     “We both smiled.”

      September 1, 2021 9:26 AM MDT
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  • 44652
    Why are you picking nits?

      September 1, 2021 1:38 PM MDT
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  • 53526

     

      It just didn’t make sense that you said it never happens and that it happened. You got caught contradicting yourself, that’s all, it’s not a big deal. Don’t try to make me out to be a bad guy because I ask you about it.
    ~

      September 1, 2021 5:22 PM MDT
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  • 44652
    Let's pretend neither of us give a crap.
      September 1, 2021 9:32 PM MDT
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  • 10052
    LOL!! 
      September 2, 2021 7:57 PM MDT
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  • 10052
    They both smiled AFTER he caught her "checking him out". He was flattered that she was checking him out, not flattered by having a woman smile at him.

    Make sense now that I mansplained it to you? 



      September 2, 2021 8:11 PM MDT
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  • 16838
    Flattering no, just happy. I'm rocking the "dad bod" now.
      August 31, 2021 6:37 PM MDT
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