I've always tried to be polite to everyone - whether they're rude or not. What's wrong with taking fruit into the bedroom? I do it all the time. (or is that a euphemism for something else?) I have never gone skinny (or fat) dipping. (can't swim)
I am always polite. I have a desk in the bedroom to food comes in often. No skinny dipping or chunky dunking. We are busy trying to get a 2nd location stocked for spring. That is fun for us. We also spend time with family.