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If you're asked a question that you do not want to answer, how do you handle that?

Posted - September 1, 2022

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  • 44801
    Sorry, I'm too drunk to answer that.
      September 1, 2022 5:57 PM MDT
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  • 10051
    Nice. 
    Even if it's not true? 
      September 1, 2022 5:58 PM MDT
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  • 44801
    It usually is.
      September 1, 2022 6:09 PM MDT
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  • 17321
    Why do you want to know?
      September 1, 2022 7:33 PM MDT
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  • 10051
    Curiosity. I like to know how other people handle different situations and scenarios. 


      September 1, 2022 8:55 PM MDT
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  • 53827

     

      What’s this all about?
      ~

      September 1, 2022 8:22 PM MDT
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  • 10051
    I'm just curious.
    Wait... Is this your way of saying that you handle it by asking another question?
      September 1, 2022 8:58 PM MDT
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  • 53827

     

      What makes you think that?
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      September 1, 2022 10:32 PM MDT
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  • 10051
    Lol.
      September 2, 2022 8:24 PM MDT
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  • Depends on who is asking and and the reason I don’t want to answer. If it’s someone I don’t believe is asking with the intention of just being nosy or baiting me I’d tell the truth, that I don’t want to answer and the reason I don’t want to answer… it’s personal, I don’t know the answer, I don’t wish to share my opinion on that subject… whatever the reason. If it’s someone I think is just digging for information with the intention of being nosy or trying to bait me I’ll make up a false/ sarcastic answer that is so absurd they’ll get the hint that I’m telling them to back off me and mind their business.  

      September 1, 2022 8:30 PM MDT
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  • 10051
    Yeah, that sounds good. Very reasonable. Makes sense to me. 


      September 1, 2022 8:51 PM MDT
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  • Anyone worthwhile will respect your reason for not wanting to answer the question and drop it. If they’re not worthwhile, who cares if they get offended by you not sharing. 

      September 1, 2022 9:03 PM MDT
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  • 10051
    Agreed! 



      September 1, 2022 9:12 PM MDT
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  • 53827

     

      You two are not surreptitiously talking about Randy D Randolph, are you? Careful! I have dirt on both of you, remember that. Grrrrrrr.



    ~

      September 2, 2022 6:54 AM MDT
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  • 10051
    Did the doctor prescribe you some medical marijuana or something? You're being paranoid! 

    Oh, I forgot... EVERYTHING is about Randy D. 

      September 2, 2022 12:05 PM MDT
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  • 53827

     

     No, the Doctor didn’t put me on marijuana, she knows I wouldn’t go for it. She did, however, express a more personal interest in me, and we made arrangements to meet later that evening to go . . . oh, I won’t torture you with the sordid details. I just may have bumped you off the schedule and put her in your time slot. A gentleman doesn’t kiss and tell.


    ~

      September 2, 2022 8:45 PM MDT
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  • 10051
    As long as you stay away from anything that will impair that exceptional imagination...

      September 2, 2022 9:11 PM MDT
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  • 11944
    As long as the question was asked with no bad intention,  I will politely deflect. I may something like 'it's a long story' or 'that's ancient history '. If the asker persists, I will be a little more direct, but if someone is really persistent,  I tell them it's none of their business. 
      September 1, 2022 9:48 PM MDT
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  • 53827

     

      What is your home address, please?
      ~

      September 1, 2022 10:32 PM MDT
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  • 11944
    That's none of your business. 
      September 2, 2022 6:57 AM MDT
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  • 53827

     


      But there’s no bad intention on my part, just a friendly visit, a pop-in!


    ~

      September 2, 2022 8:48 AM MDT
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  • 10051
    Good tips. Thanks!

    I have a difficult time skirting/deflecting and usually just say "I'm not comfortable answering that", which apparently is not the norm. 
    To me, simply ignoring is very impolite and not something I do purposely.  
      September 2, 2022 9:17 PM MDT
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  • 17736
    Smile and walk away.
      September 1, 2022 10:31 PM MDT
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  • 2219
    Shh, it's a secret/classified. 
      September 2, 2022 2:05 AM MDT
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