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Which of your good qualities is the most inconvenient or creates the most difficulty for you?

For example,  I  am very reliable and virtually always do what I say I will do, even when it turns out I have to forgo doing something that I really want to do.

Posted - September 26, 2022
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  • 3024
    I am OCD about being on time and expect everyone else to be on time as well, especially if we are going together.  I usually arrive at doctors appointments 15 minutes early.  Not everyone shares my sentiments.


     This post was edited by Honey Dew at September 28, 2022 12:21 PM MDT
      September 26, 2022 10:19 AM MDT
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  • 44649
    I also hate being late.
      September 26, 2022 10:46 AM MDT
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  • 3024
    Good quality for sure!
      September 26, 2022 12:48 PM MDT
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  • 11087
    But is that inconvenient or difficult for you? 
      September 26, 2022 10:50 AM MDT
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  • 3024
    If I say I'll be ready at a certain time, you can count on it.  Having someone join me can be tough.  I prepare items needed for the excursion sometimes the night before.  My son is the only one who means what he says.  If he says he will be here at 9:34 a.m. he will be here exactly at that time.  I can count on him like that.  My neighbor however, bless her heart is on a different schedule although she is getting better I must add.  She forgot something or needs to go back in for her phone etc. She feels pushed which I feel bad about but I time everything to get where I need to be on time or preferably early.  
      September 26, 2022 12:56 PM MDT
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  • 44649
    I don't have any good qualities.
      September 26, 2022 10:47 AM MDT
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  • 11087
    Then think of one of your least objectionable qualities. 
      September 26, 2022 10:51 AM MDT
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  • 44649
    My intelligence. I can't stand to be around stupid people.
      September 26, 2022 10:52 AM MDT
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  • 3024
    If everyone was as smart as you, you would not be needed. Those of less intelligence than you need your example which can influence others to do better, solve a problem, or give them another way of dealing with life. You are needed.  I suggest you volunteer, perhaps at a homeless shelter.  There are thousands of folks walking around in the dark, so to speak.  You are needed.  

    Intelligence is not free, responsibility comes along with it.


     This post was edited by Honey Dew at September 28, 2022 1:58 AM MDT
      September 26, 2022 1:01 PM MDT
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  • 10662
    Amen to that! 
      September 26, 2022 3:04 PM MDT
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  • 23641
    (I like your sense of humor.)
      September 26, 2022 2:49 PM MDT
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  • 44649
    Thanks.
      September 27, 2022 8:20 AM MDT
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  • 23641

    I've always truly cared about other people in my life. 

    And I have a creative fertile imagination.


    But then, at times, I can get overly concerned with my very active imagination and create non-existent worries - thinking I may have hurt or angered others.
      September 26, 2022 2:48 PM MDT
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  • 11087
    Relatable!
      September 26, 2022 6:37 PM MDT
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  • 23641
    Let's both relate ourselves together out of that Way of Thinking.  :)
      September 28, 2022 7:21 AM MDT
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  • 11087
    I need a 12 - step program for that!
      September 28, 2022 9:20 AM MDT
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  • 23641
    Helps me, actually.
    I go to one of them.  ACoA.  :)
      September 28, 2022 8:33 PM MDT
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  • 53524

     

      That hurts me and angers me.
      ~

      September 27, 2022 11:26 AM MDT
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  • 23641


    Oh, no. I knew I was right to worry  . . .


     
      September 28, 2022 7:20 AM MDT
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  • 53524
      September 28, 2022 7:40 AM MDT
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  • 10662
    Probably my sense of humor.  It has a way of popping up at ... shall we say... "unusual" times.
      September 26, 2022 3:49 PM MDT
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  • 16829
    Ditto. Knee jerk Dad jokes. A co-worker told me she was hungry, I automatically replied, "Hi hungry, I'm Dad" without thinking.
      September 26, 2022 5:53 PM MDT
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  • 11087
    And I would answer, 'I'd rather be hungry,  I can get over that'.
      September 26, 2022 6:39 PM MDT
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  • 3024
    LOL
      September 26, 2022 7:52 PM MDT
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