Were you the favorite of your parents, or was it one of your siblings? How did that work out?

But what a novel idea .....i still dunno if  you did right, Jamie! Wasn't it emotional blackmail;))

Damn straight it was ...... How you think I grew up to be a mind ninja? Casualties to be expected In my training .... :)      

Umm I dunno.....but I can't do it ....maybe I'm too huh....can't get the right word...delicate....God I'm stuck;(( This post was edited by Veena.K at March 4, 2017 4:14 PM MST

Lol :) her and I are very close now ... If makes you feel better she once beat me with a stick end of vacuum and I locked my self in washroom for a day...cos vacuum :(

Nah it doesn't make me feel better that she once hit you with a stick end of vacuum...you are a sweet girl and I'm sure your sis is too.....maybe if I had an younger sister I would know;))

Well done.  

She learned at an early age and in a safe environment that there can be an end to the restitution required for even egregious wrongs.

That's what I call resourceful!

I thought so too :) thank you :)

That was very clever, but come on, that was pretty evil too. )
Do you think it helped your sister growing up being favored?
Good story, you're lucky they didn't make you give the money back. )

They did -_- also they went  to Nashville that end of summer and left me home with my crazy aunt .... Like said ... They hated my guts ;) 

Well...Nashville...hmmm
Im not sure you missed that much.  ))

Genius !!!

Yes I am a genius. Thanks Tom ;) no one else can see that .... Meh ;)

Love your creativity Hun. Mhmm. Ahem. 

You know?
Some people say that only children grow up with a sense of entitlement. Not saying you did, but do you think that's true? Did you get everything you wanted? I sure wished I was an only child sometimes. I figured everything would not have to be shared three ways, you know what i mean?

It was quite the opposite. We were never well off. As a matter of fact, all our lives we just got by which means that I just got by. I hardly ever got what I wanted. That whole thing didn't happen untill high school by my own hands. There was a period in my life where I stole from the rich and gave to the poor(long story). The poor being me, my mom and my dad. 

That's not  cool at all.
That's something I think about sometimes.
Who is really not an accident????
Besides those people you see on talk shows with stories about how blessed they feel because they've been trying for so long, blah, blah, blah.
Isn't most everybody a surprise any way? 
About your mother saying you were an accident, that's cold.
Thanks for sharing J. I do appreciate it.

Now you are.

Now let's make that picture happen.

You know what I did when they were little?
I would take them out every now and then, just one of them and I.
I'd tell whomever was with me that day, that he was my favorite and that he or she needed to be nice to his her siblings.
I think it was my daughter who caught on to my trick and called me out on it. I still say it but they laugh at it now.
It's sad that you felt like nobody's favorite.
If you were my son, you'd be my favorite. )
Thanks WW. 

That's what she said.

You're my favorite child.  I'll adopt you.

We love you WW.  I'll adopt you too.