Have you ever felt low/less than others in any realm of your life, and thought you couldn't do something or were not good enough, but then you later did to your surprise? I'm having issues with love and dating- I always decline guys b/c I feel not good enough; not confident enough, and like the trauma I have had in past (abuse) , taints me in a way... then I think a date/guy will sense that and feel I'm less as well. :/ Any stories welcome in your own life..