You've been nothing but nice to me. And with this discussion, I've been there, done that. I try to get better and in some ways I have. But not always. A couple hours ago I read "It's OK to be who you are." That helped me. Regardless of where my head was at the time -- yes, indeed, it is OK to be me. :)
Ha! Surprisingly, with how often my head is in the gutter, this time it wasn't! But I can see why yours went there! Ha! I just was strongly agreeing that sometimes one needs to say "Fuck all that sh** in my head!"
But I can easily get to the gutter, too, and be agreeable! Ha!
Having a Thinking-Too-Much day so far again but the first step in stopping is to be aware I'm doing it. (Yeah, I'm saying it to you because, with your original answer, I know you get it.) :) Thanks for listening.
Strangely I rarely have to think of what to say...I read the questions and often laugh at the things that pop into my head....I spend more time toe Ning fings down for our American siblings......hehe