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The negative judgments, the assumptions and the lies.how do you handle what other people think of YOU?

Do you care?

Posted - June 27, 2016

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  • 359

    You would wish that people could see you as you really are.. But unfortunately we live in a world where a lot of people want to hate on people who have ideas different to them..  Part of dealing with it is accepting that people are going to hate on you from time to time.. If we are too idealistic about how we think the word should be and how we think people should be we will suffer far more when other people show themselves incapable of living up to idealistic standards...  Negative judgements and assumptions still hurt,, but they hurt a lot less when we accept that world is as it is and people are not perfect beings..

      June 27, 2016 7:11 AM MDT
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  • 147

    very cool answer

      June 27, 2016 7:31 AM MDT
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  • 359

      June 27, 2016 7:36 AM MDT
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  • 5808

    all of that?

    i really don't see any of it...

      June 27, 2016 8:31 AM MDT
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  • 49

    As long as I know that I am a decent, compassionate human being I have no problem with what others may think of me. Just because they think it, doesn't mean they are right.

      June 27, 2016 8:44 AM MDT
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  • 2658

    Don’t be embarrassed by who you are. They’re going to judge you no matter what you do.  IMO..What others think of me is none of my business.

      June 27, 2016 10:05 AM MDT
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  • 147

     fantastic answer

      June 27, 2016 10:07 AM MDT
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  • 46117

    I tell you off.  Oh, sorry I mean I tell "them" off.

      June 27, 2016 10:11 AM MDT
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  • 3907

    Hello m:

    Well, I'm VERY concerned about what people think of me.  That's why I chose such a warm and fuzzy name.

    excon

      June 27, 2016 10:13 AM MDT
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  • 2658

      June 27, 2016 10:51 AM MDT
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  • 1113

    I stay away from people and their opinions.

      June 27, 2016 10:56 AM MDT
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  • 221

    when that sort of thing happens and i'm aware of it, it hurts my feelings. i get mad, and then i cry about it. i'm sensitive.

      June 27, 2016 10:58 AM MDT
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  • 17

    if it costs me my job then ya

      June 27, 2016 11:05 AM MDT
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  • 22891

    i dont care what people think of me

      June 27, 2016 7:44 PM MDT
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  • 676

    I stopped caring what others think of me a long time ago.

      June 27, 2016 7:48 PM MDT
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  •   June 27, 2016 11:57 PM MDT
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  • "My therapist told me that I have no control over other people. She was right."

      June 28, 2016 12:00 AM MDT
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  • 147

      July 2, 2016 5:37 AM MDT
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  • 147

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  • 147

      July 2, 2016 5:38 AM MDT
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  • 147

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      July 2, 2016 5:39 AM MDT
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