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What qualities do you look for in people you like or admire?

For me, intelligence is a must, humour is also very welcome..  Humility is quite cool, but mainly it's intelligence and wit. 

Posted - June 3, 2018
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  • 10642
    Humor, intelligence and modesty.
      June 3, 2018 2:41 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    Funny you should say that, as originally, when I wrote the question, I added, 'humility' - which is pretty much the same thing.. So I agree :)
      June 4, 2018 1:37 PM MDT
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  • 16792
    A sense of humour. Particularly the ability to laugh at oneself.
      June 3, 2018 4:07 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    Too true!
      June 4, 2018 1:55 PM MDT
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  • 14795
    Well....all that lets me out......I might as well go home....:( 
      June 3, 2018 4:26 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    Absolute rubbish, we all know you are one of the wittiest people on here! Why, you are even wittier than me, and we all know I am outstandingly witty.
      June 4, 2018 1:39 PM MDT
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  • 14795
    Well I can't argue with that....some times I'm at my wits end trying to out wit other wanabe wits...:(
      June 4, 2018 5:01 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    It would be someone who can display good communication skills, wit and a demonstrable intelligence. Someone who puts effort in their appearance, but not vanity. Confidence, but not douchebaggery. Likable, but not a suck up. 

    ..and it helps if they are accomplished in their life. 
      June 3, 2018 4:48 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    Love the word, 'douchebaggery' that should surely make it into the next edition of the dictionaries :) I hate suck-ups too - maybe that's why I will never get a promotion :P
      June 4, 2018 1:42 PM MDT
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  • 13071
    Intelligence, humor, kindness, and tolerance.
      June 3, 2018 5:33 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    Agreed. There's certainly not enough kindness and tolerance around these days. 
      June 4, 2018 1:53 PM MDT
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  • intelligence, honesty, responsibility, compassion, creativity
    excellent communication skills

    I enjoy wit in certain forms, such as illogical twists of the unexpected,
    but I loath sarcasm and passive-aggression trying to pretend to be funny.
      June 3, 2018 7:35 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    Lots of new ones in there - I hadn't thought of compassion, for instance - and yet that's very, very important to me. I struggle with those who are cruel and uncaring to others.
      June 4, 2018 1:50 PM MDT
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  • 3523
    Happiness.  I love happy people.  
      June 3, 2018 8:07 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    Definitely better than moaning minnies and miseries. 
      June 4, 2018 1:45 PM MDT
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  • Excellent point.

    Someone who's fairly happy most of the time is likely to have an above average level of sanity. 


      June 4, 2018 9:07 PM MDT
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  • 177
    Individuality and confidence are attractive to me
      June 4, 2018 2:37 AM MDT
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  • 6477
    They do say that, don't they? I definitely think there's something in that if someone exudes confidence in themselves that makes them attractive.
      June 4, 2018 1:47 PM MDT
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  • 6098
    I admire people who work hard and reach out to others. 
      June 4, 2018 5:31 AM MDT
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  • 6477
    Those actually are admirable traits I agree 
      June 4, 2018 1:36 PM MDT
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