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Moving on from my objectifying men question.. Have you ever been objectified in that way, and how did it feel?

Have you had someone who drooled over you and knew that their only interest in you was physical? 

Posted - September 9, 2018
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  • 44619
    I'm not sure. Let me think about it.

      September 9, 2018 6:18 AM MDT
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  • 53509

      Yes, I've been a couple of women's sex object in my lifetime, but unfortunately, it hasn't happened a lot. (Sigh, there's still time, though . . . )

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      September 9, 2018 7:47 AM MDT
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  • 22891
    not yet
      September 9, 2018 2:33 PM MDT
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  • 4624
    Plenty of men drooled and made it blatantly clear that their interest was purely physical.
    Those were the ones that never got to first base (genuine friendship) with me.
      September 9, 2018 11:36 PM MDT
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  • 3523
    I've heard that approach works with some women. Do you think that's true?
      September 15, 2018 3:13 AM MDT
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  • 4624
    Genuine friendship is the only way that ever worked with me.
    It's not the guarantee;
    it's just that for me love is about the whole person, so you have to know him well before you can love him, and vice versa.

      September 15, 2018 11:44 PM MDT
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  • 3523
    Same here.
      September 16, 2018 2:44 AM MDT
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  • 3523
    I hate it when that happens.
      September 14, 2018 12:48 PM MDT
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  • 6098
    OK I really can't think in those terms.  Not the type of person men drool over anyway.  They want to have sex with me and yes sometimes that is all but I am not so good at identifying that beforehand. And sometimes I don't care anyway. I like receiving interest and it makes me feel worthwhile as a person. You have to start somewhere and might as well be with sex.  Because the sooner we start - if they are interested in me - theoretically the sooner it gets good. 
      September 14, 2018 2:14 PM MDT
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