depends what you mean by modest some people think it's only a matter of how much flesh shows - in which case women tend to show more, except at the beach depending on where you live and the type of event, women are required to show more - eg lower necklines and lower legs in skirts at work
but if "modest" means not stating beneficial or positive achievements or facts: lack of testosterone reduces confidence and initiative a woman who says something positive about herself is unlikely to be believed and will probably be instantly put down with negative jokes women are praised for being modest most religions assert that modesty in women is a virtue and have negative or punitive responses to lack of modesty