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Do you believe in having favorites among people?

Posted - February 23, 2019
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  • 3523
    Yes, but I think my favorites are the people I know the most good things about.  I just haven't discovered as much good in my less favorites friends, so far.
      February 23, 2019 8:46 PM MST
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  • 23641
    I like your answer a lot. Yeah, that's very good.
    :)
      February 24, 2019 11:00 AM MST
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  • 53524


      Of course I do! Doesn't everyone have people they like and people they don't like?


    ~
      February 23, 2019 11:35 PM MST
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  • 17614
    There's no believing in.  We will always be more attracted to some more than others, agree with some more than others, etc.  We will not like all persons equally.  Thank goodness!!  When that happens we will indeed be stepford citizens.
      February 24, 2019 1:25 AM MST
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  • 23641
    (I love that "Stepford Wives" book. And I liked the movie, too.)

    :)
      February 24, 2019 11:01 AM MST
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  • 46117
    Both of those two movies.  They were both amazing.
      February 24, 2019 12:06 PM MST
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  • 14
    One group of guys at work said I favoured another group over them.  It's simple, the accusers are mean and nasty wheras the other guys are approachable and friendly.  Of course they are my favourites.  I would need to be some sort of masochist to feel otherwise. 
      February 24, 2019 2:41 AM MST
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  • Good Morning friend!!  Nice to see you here.  You're certainly one of my all time favorites!!  I agree, it's pretty natural to gravitate towards certain people.
      February 24, 2019 3:01 AM MST
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  • 14
    Good to see you here, and thanks for alerting me to this site. I have noticed a few of my favourits here today. 

      February 24, 2019 4:27 AM MST
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  • 6098
    As impartial as we try to be we will always have favorites.  Things just work that way. 
      February 24, 2019 5:53 AM MST
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  • 5391
    What’s to believe? I absolutely have favorite people. Always did, always will. 
      February 24, 2019 7:13 AM MST
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  • 53524


      Am I one of them?


    ~
      February 24, 2019 10:32 AM MST
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  • 23641
    Here I go again -- I want ot meet this guy! I don't care if he's 'acting' that smile or not -- he looks really friendly.
    And in the context here of your reply, your use of the image is great, ha!
    :)
      February 24, 2019 11:03 AM MST
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  • 5391
    No more than I am one of yours, Randy. 
      February 24, 2019 4:26 PM MST
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  • 53524

      I don't dislike you at all, Don.  I'm not sure if that's a mutual sentiment.
    ~
      February 24, 2019 7:07 PM MST
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  • 8214
    Now I see why they call you Randy Candy.  Who could resist that smile. lol
      February 24, 2019 6:06 PM MST
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  • 53524


      Wait, they don't call me Randy Candy; Randy candy is what I represent, it's a metaphor of what I have to  offer . . . oh, never mind.

    ~
      February 24, 2019 7:14 PM MST
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  • 8214
    I have a favorite person in my life and support him in everything he does.  If he is or becomes famous I'm sure no one deserves it more.  
      February 24, 2019 8:55 AM MST
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  • 46117
    No.

    That is a game we play.  

    It lends to what pleases us the most.  How dare I?

    I have people I feel comfortable being around.    I have people who teach me lessons by having to be around them.  If I prefer one to the other, I am out of balance and asking for it.
      February 24, 2019 11:01 AM MST
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  • 23641
    That's an interesting aspect. And it's one I admit that I can have challenges with, even though I know, deep down and as much I may try to battle it, I can learn/benefit/grow from pretty much anyone who enters my life.
    :)
      February 24, 2019 11:06 AM MST
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  • 53524
    Huh?

    (Scratches head.)
    ~
      February 24, 2019 12:53 PM MST
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  • 8214
    Ok, I took a class on doing voice overs.  I lost my demo tape but it was fun.  I lurve people who do voice overs?  I lurve actors as well,  I have a favorite voice over person and actor but I can't remember their names....what do you think they were?
      February 24, 2019 6:05 PM MST
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  • favorites are ok as long as you keep it to yourself and still treat everyone equal
      February 24, 2019 7:45 PM MST
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  • 4624
    Not a matter of do I believe or not.

    Fact is fact.

    I certainly have favourites among my friends - the ones I'm closest to.
    I automatically expect that they do to.
    And it doesn't bother me.

    It's so simple -
    with some very rare people, the number of shared interests and values is so closely aligned
    that it's just incredibly easy to get along and 
    really enjoy each other's company and conversation.

    The key elements for me are emotional intimacy and high intelligence,
    but there is more.
    Creativity, awareness, curiosity, empathy, honesty and integrity
    all play I big part in who I feel most attracted to and comfortable with.
      February 24, 2019 10:18 PM MST
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