That's because you have no children. I have often said that I am not woman enough to handle two babies at one time. I don't even apologize for it. Nightmare...horrible nightmare!
My aunt has a daughter that looks like her mum and was born just after me..... My mum and her sister are in their fifties now and ten years ago if we al went out together we almost looked liked identical Quads.... My aunt has five kids ,my mum has six Plus my dad.... If my aunt is like my mum then she's like a rabbit to....my uncle are both very lucky guys to have found their partners....lol
My mum often calls her partner a Big silly Kid ,mainly because he is and and acts like one of his own three boys and me .... Yes,their home was always a happy place to be ,my dad can be a real Looney at times....my mother said he was only like it when I came along....lol
We were expecting one and got a bonus - One Boy, one Girl. They are a lot of work, however a lot of fun and we would not trade the experience for anything. At our ages people were surprised when we announced we were expecting
We were just hoping to conceive and have a healthy baby. this what I feel a person should be wishing for. Twins or more happen for whatever reasons - just saying