Yes and sort of. My better half is going through menopause atm, it's rough on her and she's just not in the mood most of the time. The sex is incendiary when it happens, but it's less frequent than I'd like. As for me, the spirit is always willing but ... I hurt a lot of the time. Pain is a buzzkill. Now is better than ten years ago, back then I hurt ALL the time and I was addicted to opioids. Sensation killers and can (and sometimes did) cause ED.
