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Randy D

Generally speaking, do you prefer to seduce, or to be seduced?




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Posted - May 10, 2019
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  • 10026
    WOW!  What a tough call.  It depends on the mood and lingerie available at the moment of seduction. (That is lingerie on my behalf. ;)
    I'm feeling I'll be the seducer tonight.  Don doesn't know that yet but I'm sure he will be pleasantly surprised.
    Both are fun.
    It's a tie. 50/50!
    Wishy-washy answer? Yes.  Truth? Yes. ;) :)
      May 10, 2019 10:30 AM MDT
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  • 5354
    to be seduced. Definitely tro be seduced. It is too much work the other way round.
      May 10, 2019 10:38 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    Do you prefer to eat the sandwich or to make the sandwich, that is the question.  To make or to eat the sand. 


      May 10, 2019 10:46 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    I am Cracking Up over here!
    Best Answer, For Sure!!!!!!!
    :D! :D!
      May 10, 2019 10:52 AM MDT
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  • 53524

      (Sigh.). I thought you knew me well enough by now.  The sandwiches must be made for me.  Grrrr.

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      May 10, 2019 9:43 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Then you prefer to be seduced, but you can't stop seducing.  So you are making more sandwiches than are served to you and that may be why the sandwiches are not coming.  (no pun) 
      May 16, 2019 11:14 AM MDT
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  • 11089
    I sense where this is going. Give it up, Randy...
      May 10, 2019 4:04 PM MDT
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  • 53524

      You don’t have to beg me for it, Baby; every day of my life I’m ready to give it to you.

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      May 10, 2019 11:01 PM MDT
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  • 11089

    via GIPHY

      May 11, 2019 6:21 AM MDT
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  • I just like to cut to the chase, get it on, and get a move on. It's too late in the night and I've got things to do in the morning. 
      May 11, 2019 1:40 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    You are so awesome.  And how comfortable it must be to have someone like you as a partner.  No words are needed.  Just animal lust and good night.  LOL 
      May 16, 2019 11:16 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    *chuckling!***
    The foreplay overrated approach.
    Lube it up.  Stick it in.  
    Afterplay is definitely the "good night."
    ;) :)
      May 16, 2019 11:29 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    Oh man.  I hope it is not that cold or gross.  That is as healing and communicative as going to the toilet.  
      May 16, 2019 11:31 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    I'm smiling and shaking my head from side to side...
    I hope not either for any and all who feel that is what sharing bodies and love-making is all about.
    I called upon that statement because a Good friend of mine was sharing her sex life with her husand to me.
    After I picked my jaw up off the floor, (I hope I wasn't that obvious but I'm afraid I might have been,) I just smiled and nodded. 
    It's a rarity, but I was speechless.
    I wish I would have had the gumption to say what you said. 
    :) :)
    The insanity of it all.  This post was edited by Merlin at May 16, 2019 11:49 AM MDT
      May 16, 2019 11:47 AM MDT
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  • 14795
    I was seduced and must have liked it as we are still together....lol
      May 11, 2019 2:17 AM MDT
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  • 6098
    Its all a dance isn't it?  I prefer honesty and respect. If someone is not interested in me that is OK - he won't do anything. If he is interested then must be a reason he is whatever it may be.  Some men, perhaps women as well, make a game out of it so in seducing they "win".  Which I would guess makes them feel more powerful.  Then they have to deal with the consequences of their "conquests".  Much better if people are honest and avoid all that. For me at least.  I know many women do go for that because they need that kind of action to get up there themselves.  Which is fine for them.  But for me just someone politely declaring their intention is enough.  Whether I go with them then or later or never is mostly just a function of what is going on in my life at the time. Sometimes not room for them, or I would have to make room.  And sometimes I can't help but make room!
      May 11, 2019 6:16 AM MDT
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  • 6477
    Both are fun, but on balance prefer to be seduced. 
      May 11, 2019 11:11 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    Hi~ :) Overall, me too! :)
    As you said, it does need to balance. 
    This is a perfect example of:
    What goes around, comes around...
    with a Rewarding Experience (hopefully) for both.
    It's always GREAT to see you! :) :) 
      May 16, 2019 11:12 AM MDT
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  • 22891
    neither
      May 12, 2019 3:49 PM MDT
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  • 10026
    Hi Pearl~
    Even though I do believe Randy was implying this in his question, the word seduction doesn't always have to pertain to a sexual experience. 
    You seduce many things.
    Example:  I might seduce you into using your computer talents in finding a job.
    I'm thinking of you and hoping your job search has been successful.
    Take Care,
    Merlin :) :) 
      May 16, 2019 11:17 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    If someone can seduce ME?  With all the barriers I have up?  I would say it must be kismet.  I am not even interested and would not encourage it so that would be something else if that happened.  I hope not.  Unless it was an awesome GOD MAN.  LOL

     Who could resist this man?  

    I don't think even Welby could be attracted to this thing.

    This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at May 17, 2019 12:39 AM MDT
      May 16, 2019 11:18 AM MDT
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