Not if you have read Cosmo and other Rags. I have never had a problem finding it, however the press has made Billions of the idea it is hard to find. Now knowing some of the guys I work with, I think there may some truth to this fiction
It could include good-natured joking. For instance, in David Gerrold's sci-fi series, The War of the Chtorr, a couple make love under an American flag, making the flag into a source of erotic innuendo about devotion, service, reward etc. The tendency to use humour as a signal of attraction is agelessly successful in flirting, courtship and romance. It only backfires when used insincerely.
I don't really think the act itself is a joke because it tends to invoke profound emotions - sublime, blissful, ecstatic, loving, transcendent at its best, a painful hell at its worst, and a huge range of intensities, nuances and variables in between.
But there are endless ways in which the sex act can be viewed humorously - the clumsy mistakes we make, the ridiculous things people do in pursuit of it, its limitations and the imperfections of the anatomy. The details would be a discussion for the adult section.
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It's not uncommon for women to burst into uncontrollable laughter or giggles following orgasm, due to the release of hormones. I'm not saying I know this from experience, but it usually happens following an earth-shattering climax. I try to warn my partners in advance.
I was like that to for so so long and then discovered two amazing scientific devices that proved with out doubt that I was real.....one was my partner that took me to seventh heaven and the other was a mirror so I could watch my going and more my safe return and pleasent landing....:)D
Depends on what you are doing and who you are doing it with. Sometimes when you look back and think about it, it was pretty comical. The list of ways to make having sex a joke is real and endless. To Wit:
Today with the redesigned planes joining the Mile High Club would be a joke. Why? Because you could not get away with it
There are no phone Booths/Closets anymore so that option is out.
With the prevalence of security cameras a Hallway quickie would be a joke, and a good way to get fired. Same with other locations.
Think about trying to find the working parts on a partner who is 150kg/330lbs or better
Fortunately, as we get older and older, the desire wanes, so there is less and less suffering in not getting sex.
Conversely, it's possible to keep sexuality alive via the mind and in autoeroticism. I believe it's good for keeping the pelvic flaw well-toned and prevention of hernias.
My mother, at 70, squatted to pull out some weeds. The internal pressure caused her womb to fall out through her legs. She had to have a hysterectomy.
Some people might find that hilarious. I took it as a warning to keep my muscles toned.
This post was edited by inky at June 29, 2019 7:14 AM MDT