Its nice if you get back what you give ,but as my dad once told my mum ,it's far better to recieve than it is to give .....so he has to give her all his money and he gets a far better deal in return if you ask me...
My dad is always smiling and my mum is always tired and sleeps well after... ;)D
Yes? Are you tossing a coin? I always take tails. I've been told I have a nice one and men always pick head when given a choice. I win. It is better to give because when you do it correctly, the joy is felt by both. ;) :). Thanks for answering and always great to see your ~.
A wise man you are and a lucky wife you have. The question now turns. "Are you feeling lucky today...?" Thanks Element. You're tops! ;) :)
This post was edited by Merlin at January 13, 2020 10:52 PM MST
I am so tempted to write, I like dirty but not Harry. I would but I am a big Clint Eastwood fan. So, this leads me to, I will accept "Harry" at this juncture. Big Winks and Smiles!
My shoes are soooo purty. Now you tell me. Which would you rather gaze at in fascination, all your green money or my green shoes? Awww sweetie I thought so.
YES!!! Things of beauty they are. Every time you glide into a room with those adorning your feet I let out a gasp. Trust me honey bunny, I'm still able to gaze with fascination at both your shoes AND my money. lol
If you please your companion, are you doing it for a boon? Some spiritual boon that will get you straight to heaven? Or perhaps you want him to treat you in like kind? In other words, you want something. Just as selfish as pleasing yourself.
So, if you can love and not be attached to the outcome, then you are doing it right.
No one can take that kind of path unless you are Jesus or close to it.
A wise person would say that pleasing a companion should be pleasurable enough for oneself, but if that wise man is also a narcissist it only ever goes one way, and that’s the wise man’s.