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What is your favorite way turn down a sexual offer? ~

Posted - February 1, 2020

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  • 1152
    Your question is based on the premise that I receive sexual offers.

    This is a faulty premise....


      February 1, 2020 9:20 AM MST
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  • 53526
    Lol!
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      February 1, 2020 9:26 AM MST
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  • 44652
    What does that mean?
      February 1, 2020 9:40 AM MST
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  • 53526
    I know, right?
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      February 1, 2020 9:52 AM MST
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  • I would simply say, "Are you talking to ME?"   That would probably clear things right up.
      February 1, 2020 9:55 AM MST
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  • 1152
    If the answer is "Yes," what is your followup strategy?

    (asking for a friend....)
      February 1, 2020 9:58 AM MST
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  • I would be laughing too hard to think of anything else.  (I'm an old lady ... LOL)
      February 1, 2020 10:01 AM MST
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  • 1152
    I suspect I would simply be too confused to respond (see my answer elsewhere)....
      February 1, 2020 10:03 AM MST
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  • Love it!
      February 1, 2020 10:04 AM MST
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  • 53526

      Hey, wait, there are some guys who are into old ladies! (And I’m not just referring to guys who are younger than the ladies.)


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      February 1, 2020 10:09 AM MST
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  • OMG!  LOL!
      February 1, 2020 11:30 AM MST
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  • 44652
    My ex.
      February 1, 2020 7:21 PM MST
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  • 19937
    Come on, Mrs. C.  We're about the same age.  Don't tell me that you don't still get a wink or a whistle at a construction site.  :)
      February 1, 2020 1:37 PM MST
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  • Where we live, homes are being built all around.  No, they don't wink or whistle at me .. or anyone else.  Not sure even younger women are thrilled with that kind of attention anymore.  :)
      February 1, 2020 1:51 PM MST
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  • 53526
      Have any women ever been thrilled with catcalls?


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      February 1, 2020 8:48 PM MST
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  • 783
    I honestly don’t mind them and don’t get the big fuss about it. As long as someone doesn’t invade my personal space or pose an immediate threat, they can catcall all they want. This post was edited by Lady Ondine at February 1, 2020 9:04 PM MST
      February 1, 2020 8:56 PM MST
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  • Some get a kick out of it.  I know lots of women who find it kind of creepy.
      February 2, 2020 9:41 AM MST
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  • 19937
    They aren't, but you haven't lost it completely if you can still get a second look from a younger guy. :)  By the way, I don't think they do that as home builders - mostly urban hi-rise construction. 
      February 2, 2020 7:41 AM MST
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  • I usually just hand them the application form.
      February 1, 2020 12:08 PM MST
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  • 1152
    Is that downloadable from the Web, or do I have to get the form in person?...


      February 1, 2020 12:54 PM MST
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  • 34452
    Start talking about my husband and 3 kids....
      February 1, 2020 1:14 PM MST
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  • 14795
    If they are polite and just being cheeky ,I would just  roll with it.....if not I would not so gently let them no 
      February 1, 2020 2:28 PM MST
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  • 53526

      I thought that being polite and being cheeky are exact opposites of each other. 
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      February 1, 2020 9:52 PM MST
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  • 14795
    Knot with me it ain't....as well you must know by now...:)
      February 2, 2020 3:59 AM MST
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