Guys are not all the same. The guys who would run, will simply say no to the invitation. but a guy who responds positively, will know what he is getting  himself into.My wife and I met at a Bible study group. After a few months of just seeing each ot...  moreGuys are not all the same. The guys who would run, will simply say no to the invitation. but a guy who responds positively, will know what he is getting  himself into.My wife and I met at a Bible study group. After a few months of just seeing each other weekly in the group, she and I started to go to lunch after wards. Eventually, after a few weeks of these informal friendly lunches, I said "I think it's time to ask you out on a real date." So, some guys are perfectly happy for things to start with friendship and to move slowly.We just celebrated our 33rd wedding anniversary.  less

How about this: say outright and upfront: "I have anxiety and PTSD....but do you want to have lunch anyway?" And say it in good humor, with a smile on your face.

Apparently the Philippines!

Perhaps it would help if you just banished the word "date" from your vocabulary. Do things you enjoy doing, and in the course of doing them meet likeminded people with similar interests. It would be natural to go out for coffee or lunch after such an acti...  morePerhaps it would help if you just banished the word "date" from your vocabulary. Do things you enjoy doing, and in the course of doing them meet likeminded people with similar interests. It would be natural to go out for coffee or lunch after such an activity, and the two of you can just chat about things, without the pressure of "being on a date."  

Ooooh, what you just said is slanderous. Be prepared for a lawsuit!!! lol.

There are quite a few independent nurseries around here. In fact, two of them recently moved to new locations where they would have more space.We planted some shrubs and flowers recently that we bought from one.

My one and only trip to Paris was in 1994, with my wife. We were celebrating our 10th wedding anniversary. I loved it! If I were fluent in French and had a lot more money than I do, I could easily imagine living there.

My first and last name each contain one e and one i. So I guess in your method of scoring, that would be a 4.

I was never in the service. I did spend a few summers, as a teenager, at a summer camp where there was a rifle range. I shot a .22 rifle during those summers. I did so again during a 6 week Riflery course in college.

It truly is a treasure trove -- those taters frying on the stove.

I've embraced my inner geezer. It so freeing to know I never have to be cool anymore! lol.

I teach undergraduate students. It works if you share with a sense of humor. It also works better if your story is not " We never had email", but instead your story is a funny or interesting anecdote in which the lack of email plays a part.

Actually, President Obama enacted a record number of consumer protection regulations which Trump has promised to throw out.

Because he convinced them that he would protect the little guy.Do you remember that Tea Party rally, years ago, where someone was photographed with a sign saying "Keep your government off my welfare!"The Tea Party had convinced her that they would&nb...  moreBecause he convinced them that he would protect the little guy.Do you remember that Tea Party rally, years ago, where someone was photographed with a sign saying "Keep your government off my welfare!"The Tea Party had convinced her that they would safeguard her welfare check.  

Well said.

I think that virtually every foreign policy decision he makes will have an effect on his multinational businesses, and as you point out many of his domestic decisions will affect his businesses as well. Yes, it bothers me, and everyone should have realize...  moreI think that virtually every foreign policy decision he makes will have an effect on his multinational businesses, and as you point out many of his domestic decisions will affect his businesses as well. Yes, it bothers me, and everyone should have realized this before they voted for him.  

Yes, that family with exactly 2.7 children is quite extraordinary.

Sounds like a plan! (I live up north). And I am sure that getting Canada to pay for our heating bills will be as easy as getting Mexico to pay for that wall.

I was once approached by guys who wanted to cast me in a porn film. I assume I would have been paid, but I turned them down.

One on one, and just as another responder put it, it will always be that way for me.

No I have not.

I used to do this a lot. I still do sometimes, but by and large I am trying to keep my sexuality focused on my marriage and not get so distracted.